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HARD) LETS UNDRESS ME) [Multi Goal]
Date: December 20, 2022
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I don’t really think there’s any delicate way to have the conversation. I would just tell her that you’re worried about her damaging her face and also worried that the hair growth could be some underlying medical issue that might be dangerous for her. Also, just a regular doctors appointment is needed and then a referral to a dermatologist if required.
As a side note, I would doubt that the hair growth is from some steroids she took years ago. It will be more likely hormonal or something else. I would be more worried if I was her, that whatever this is could be causing fertility issues or worse.
Hell no. Wtf. A person is never owe a sexual favor. This is so frustrating, just please don't give in to this kind of behavior.
You're the good guy here. If you can avoid letting the husband make this into a big deal, it will eventually blow over. This may sort itself out, but if it doesn't then the person who should do the talking is your friend — to her husband. He ought to be very grateful!
Thanks for the advice, though I'm not looking to break up. As I said, this doesn't happen over everything. There's lots of issues that we can have a healthy debate about. It's just certain things where he feels like me having an opinion is equal to me saying he's a bad person for having a different opinion. It's a complicated situation.
You’re an angry person. You’re also quite irrational. I question your judgement in impregnating a woman with two prior baby daddies, and you don’t have the empathy or human kindness towards two innocent kids who are not at fault. I was sympathetic to your view, no more.
How du know marriage is on the cards?
Take it from me who dated a man who was separated from his sons mother and had to go see her on the weekends because it was her day to have the son: They are fucking plus doing all the things you just described. Him being able to lie so easily is a a dick swinging around with a giant red flag on it! This is just going to leave you with HUGE trust issues with ANY man because of what he is doing. The wife knows what she is doing. She will continue to fuck him and go out with him until you leave him because they hate seeing them move on and they get jealous. The girl did the same shit to me saw him with me when we dropped off the son and next thing you know I get a anonymous phone call about how amazing he felt in her the other night when he ignored my calls the whole weekend. It turned me evil and built up walls the only one man could break down and he is my husband.
LEAVE him! He isn’t ready to move on and he probably won’t until he gets his own place and the divorce is final! It’s not with the mental and emotional stress!
Just because he posts pictures of you 2 together doesn’t mean he doesn’t have settings that block people from seeing them even if they follow each other. My bridesmaids posted pictures of my bachelorette party and the ones that still had my ex husband on social media had to make those posts specifically blocked from him. You aren’t as known as you think. Also it doesn’t take a year to divorce. So you were dating a fully married man for this enigma year. You are not the main piece
Man your parents really suck. If some asshole molested and/or abused my child I would kill that bastard in an extremely slow and gruesome way. Not invite him in my home to hang out with my other minor child. Your parents essentially failed both of you.
Tell your brother. Let him know what kind of monster he's looking up to and also that your parents try to sweep this under the rug. Then let him make his own decisions from there.
This is really sad ? Some type of counseling together might help you if nothing else move forward or past this. ::hugs::
That's fine that is how you view the word sexy, but that doesn't mean that's how the rest of the world sees it. Same with everything else you are saying.
Your boyfriend's input on the situation isn't productive and your approach on how you want to be complimented sounds exhausting.
People say, do, and mean things in different ways. Your personal feelings of words, phrases, or anything else for that matter are just that, personal, up for interpretation. You should have enough empathy to understand a different person may interpret it differently.
First, she's a loser and stop excusing the pre-meditated cheating. Second, bipolar isn't an excuse. I've got Bipolar I and it's my responsibility to stay disciplined in my regiment to maintain mania — I've never cheated; ain't an excuse. Third, allow her to continue paying rent while you look into your apartment's policy on subleasing, it'll make you feel better to move out — even if you have to get roommates. Four, keep working and going to school. Fifth, and most importantly, go zero contact. She's a loser. You're just spending your energy on a piece of garbage.
Spend as much time as you can with friends, go on walks, throw yourself into work/hobby/school and eventually sign up for a gym. You'll be right as rain in a few months.
Don't, just enjoy it while it lasts
Thank you for the advice. I think if I was reading this, rather than living it, I would feel differently. I love him, but I gotta love myself more.
Just so you know, those guides on how to spot X quality or trait are largely bunk. How people react is based on how they were raised, socialized, and, in many cases, abused. If you accuse someone who has been raped of raping someone else, you're far more likely to get explosive and destructive anger because now all their pain and hurt of being abused will be directed at you for even insinuating that they would do something that destroyed their life. Something they are still recovering from in a thousand little ways. It will make them viscerally disgusted that you could put them in the same category as their abuser.
Because of his history, it is far more likely that you cut him deep by thinking he's anything like his ex. That you could even accuse him of being like her.
It's far more useful to take how people react in the context of their lives.
I just can't understand why you made her take the day off work. Why didn't you plan this a day she didn't work? Because you work those days? Then you take off work. You don't impose on someone else when you want to surprise them.
If he had to put her into bed, she didn't consent. Are you really this ignorant?
Have your testosterone checked lol
Sounds like we found the daily wife's new Gina Carano vehicle
You quite possibly saved her from being raped and/or killed, and yourself too. She needs to understand that you only did what you did to save your lives!
I would go on telling the AP's wife. He sabotaged your marriage. Why can't you do the same to him?
Uhm ya were waiting till marriage LOL no sex. We’ve always been on the same page tho. This coworker is also currently dating someone so idk man. This guy is literally obsessed w me (In a good way), doesn’t ever fuck up like this. So idk if I should bring it up and stand my ground? He’s currently here in my country visiting me. He literally got this job so he can up see me and get good discounts. But here he is with fucking pet names for his coworker
So why are you together? This makes no sense.
This!
1000000% agree with this
Wtf kind of boyfriend tells you he's sad because he misses his ex? Yuck. You deserve better sis
Do you understand how awful this sounds? Please have a little more self respect than this.
How does he even know that this is something that she would be interested in??
Wouldn’t that seem a bit strange after 5 years of no communication? If it’s that easy, I’ll do it, I just don’t want to scare her off
Again, this problem seems to have more to do with your emotions than anything relationship-related. You need therapy.
Oh, you're saying it's for weak people? Look, you're feeling insecure because of some guys who are no longer in her life. You are weak. Get therapy.
Shared computer, but you don't online togethere? Seems fishy.
If this college were really to do this knowing you're married it would be such an egregious intrusion that she probably deserves to be reported to HR. But if you don't want to take this step you'll just have to tell her that it's crass beyond belief to hit on someone who's married (with a kid no less). There's absolutely nothing positive that could come from telling your wife about this – 'cause she'd probably insist that you either report it or find a new job. But you don't have to hold back on telling this coworker off if they make a pass at you. She wouldn't deserve the avoidance of “undue embarrassment” if she does this. In fact she deserves to be made as embarrassed as possible.
You have a fair point. It would add to the experience.
Playing Devil's Advocate on the flip side, if you pick her up in a Benz, she might expect bigger and more expensive things on dates thereafter (assuming you guys keep going).
Makes money by illegal activity and is abusive – stopped reading there. Dump him. Don’t get dragged down by this guy.
Abusers make you at fault for everything they do.
They NEVER take responsibility.
Also you sure he’s even going to therapy or just telling you he’s going?
Thank you for sharing a link, I have heard of studies showing that men do not seek custody at the same rate as women but could not find the reports themselves.
you already broke up with her once, you can do it, man 🙂
The writing's on the wall man
I’m not, I was curious to know if from that viewpoint there was a justification or if he’s just acting like a knob across the board
Get a better boyfriend
you think!? at 32 you are too naive & now you are a doormat. you are being abuse by a cheater.
You're Russian now, kick his ass. Also, try accent practice so just a lot of English but try and sound Russian while speaking. If it sounds bad then that's basically the difference between your Russian and his. If you can speak the language and speak the accent you'll be good.
Imagine this sentence I'm saying right now but I put emphasis on all the wrong parts. That's why it's funny. You may be trying hot but try harder as a true sign of respect. As soon as you get it he'll tell everyone you can speak Russian as a point of pride.
Needs more mustard honestly. The best stories include mustard.
Oh sorry – I always say that when somebody gets me to laugh pretty good. You’re funny.
He's definitely the only cause of it ..bc it's really only just one personal problem, it's just that it's a big one..I'll just say it, might as well paint a full picture of my shitty life if my original post didn't do enough of that for me.. drug addiction.. he's developed a fierce drug addiction to what I believe is referred to the most dangerous pharmaceutical turned street drug available to people right now; that is when we started going downhill fast and when he turned from what I considered the absolute, hands down, without any doubt, best boyfriend not only that I've ever had but any girl could ever have.. as close to a Disney movie level Prince Charming as a man could get, that drug came along though and it got a hold of him fast and now I'm 3rd in line priority wise to 1st the drug 2nd the people he does it with and gets it from and 3rd then there's me and how I'm treated that he worries about last.. no actually we're 4th because he cares about himself somewhere in the 1, 2, and 3 spots more than me and how i feel.. I just keep hanging around because I'm trying to see if the old him will come back once he comes to his senses.. I mean, because surely this relationship with the drug will run its course and get old right??..