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Date: October 11, 2022
I used to get self-conscious about it. Now, I recognize that I can't always get the job done alone and I'm happy to receive a little help. I'm happy, she's happy, she knows that I'll do what I can to get hers, and she'll likely keep coming back to my home-cooking.
Thats why i told him in the beginning my truama from the past and I specified that I didn’t care if he did it every once in a while, but it was all through his phone at times that I was home in the other room
She has been thinking about breaking up for a long time. She has already grieved and moved on. One of the ways I always knew when a relationship was over for me is when I no longer felt angry or sad.
I am sorry.
As a woman I'm telling you to get your emotions in check cuz you will have menstruation most of your life and you being a bitch to people will only make you hated.
Second learn how to trust your partner, past mistakes can be fixed. Just because your friend had a crush on your bf doesn't mean he has to suffer cuz of it. He didn't do anything. Your friend did and if she had a crush while knowing you two are together i hope she is ex friend now.
this post made me think of the quote “if you have a table of 9 innocents and they offer a seat to a nazi, you have a table of 10 nazis”. your bf might not be outwardly homophobic, but he runs in homophobic circles and allows homophobia to persist there. not even mentioning the fact that you straight up admit that he's a sexist…yikes girl.
he didn't share that humor bc he didn't want you to know the truth about his feelings and opinions on things in fear of losing the chance to be with you. I wouldn't be surprised if you one day found out he talks trash on you to these friends just to get a laugh out of them. let's be real…the problem here isn't that he's sharing jokes with his friends and not you. it's the reasons WHY he doesn't. because he knows they'll upset you, because they're jokes planted in bigotry and hatred.
you've been trying to convince yourself for years to be okay with that. why?
Why does he need the whole house to himself and not just a room? What is he doing while you are away????
You might be the side piece. Does anyone know your dating? Like his family ?
Doesn’t matter. She still said no. Break up with her or drop it
Did you read it right? Because it is 13/1000 Women over 5 years.
And OP can always get tested to make sure her tubes have not re-attached if she is really that worried. Then she could have 100% certainty.
Not deleting it. Both of us are reading the replies and seeing how people here are very extreme personalities.
Everyone here is ignoring that it could just be a male friend. I would ask her if she met anyone that night. If she says she didn't, she's lying to you and you can confront her. If she says she did meet someone then it's probably just a friend.
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And he “has a thing for Asian girls”
Yeah we’ll come up one I like the idea of there being a middle ground like yellow tho
And for the last three years the relationship has been fine because you were living in ignorance.
It’s your SO’s house so I don’t know why you are framing this as the kid burned YOU. This is between kid & SO. Let SO handle it.
Yes , I’m still working on the friends thing. I’ve spent time in the military. Making friends by force was much easier than this haha but yes With school and work I’m maybe not trying nude enough. I feel so out of touch with people my own age and VERY out of touch with younger people. But you’re right . I need to do something more than what I have going on now. I’m great at talking to strangers but I never get pass that initial conversation.
Yeah, I mean what was it.
Was it some text? A letter? What did you say? What accountability did you lay out? How did you include (or help exonerate) your parents?
No amount of control will satisfy someone like him. Run.
A Jack & Coke ice cream float is pretty delicious, as is a Guiness stout float. But, not for breakfast.
It sounds like he doesn’t care about you and has no empathy for your situation. Take that as you will.
Tell her to kick rocks with that mentality.
Thats a federal crime what he did
I understand if it’s a deal breaker for you and that’s absolutely fine and valid.
I just don’t understand all the insistence that they’re 100% fucking and it’s impossible for an ex to be totally platonic. I dated someone for 2 years, but we broke up when we realised we’d be better as friends. This person is my best friend and has been for 6 further years now. I wouldn’t think twice about holidays with them or sharing a room. We’re just not interested romantically at all. I don’t get why this is such a weird take?
They didn’t invite you on purpose. But worse is that your fiance didn’t made a big deal out of it – he didn’t have your back. He knew that his family excluded you on purpose and just said nothing to his family and happily continued his meal. Mostly he knew from the beginning what they planned and lied to you that it was a dinner for sis because you weren't invited.
So do you really want to marry in a family in which you aren't welcome? And to a man who doesn't have your back and doesn't say anything when his family treats you like this? What if you have children? Will you then get invited? And how will you get treated if you just can come because you are the mom?
You are so young. So many marriage end in divorce because they married to young and rushed it. With the next years you will still change. So please wait and don't do things you may later regret.
All of this was going to be my answer. So. This, OP
I don't know. The only thing I can think is drugs and they're meeting their guy. But it might not be.
56 and 42 is significantly different than 20 and 53. That's a 33 year age gap. Even if they had kids right this second he'll be 71 by the time the kiddo turns 18 and is ready to graduate high school. The average life expectancy is about 75-80 so he might be around to see it. This is to say nothing about if someone that age will have the energy or capability to take care of a newborn. This should be a nude no. Social stigma, Power imbalances, differences in lifestyles and maturity etc.
If you were reading this post, what would you say?
DTMFA
It’s highly unlikely your sister is directly sourcing the components of these keychains herself—there’s dozens of social media influencers on tiktok and Instagram selling the exact crappy plastic self defense keychains you described. It’s cheap Ali Express junk marked up and resold, even if she did swap out for higher quality components she’d be priced out immediately by everyone still selling the cheap version she’s selling right now.
Pressuring her to get an abortion would be the opposite of evil. Evil would be bringing a baby in to this world in this situation.
Maybe a therapist. Sex doesn’t seem like the issue. You’re girlfriend seems to be going through something major.
Is this fixable? You're his beard. You fix it by getting a clue and dumping this user. And no, that's not how the majority of guys joke
She does have a friend group in her new country who she hangs out with a lot
She’s telling you she wants to cheat. She’s gone down the polly rabbit hole.. what all these creator she taking the wisdom’s from forget to tell is that you need a special mindset from both partners and you told her you’re ain’t in to that you’re just incompatible this will lead to resentment towards each other. Best of luck forward..
I think you’re lying to yourself, honestly.
You say multiple times you aren’t in danger, but then you say you feel scared and don’t want your future kids to see this behavior and learn from it.
You say he never takes it out on you, but also said he will say mean things and quickly apologize.
If he always apologizes and says he’s embarrassed and he knows it’s an issue, but nothing ever changes then he isn’t really that sorry or that embarrassed.
This really effects you. You’re sad, scared, angry, and it throws your mornings off every time. You have to coddle him like a child. All of this…over his HAIR.
You can’t force him to change. No amount of “help” from you will substitute him taking accountability for his own emotions and actions and doing the inner work necessary to stop these outbursts.
If this is how mad he gets over hair, how do you think he will react to bigger issues?
If you are committed to not leaving, then you need to set some real and firm boundaries around his behavior. Because you can’t force him to change his actions. This isn’t really about hair. If you don’t set some limits he’s going to rule your household with his rampages. Is that what you want? To share your house and your life with a man who can’t control himself and who takes it out on you and the furniture? That’s a big hell no from me.
What an odd autocorrect
Dont be cautious, be confident and friendly. Even if you have to fake the confidence.
This is yet another reason why I don't exchange numbers until after meeting in person.
Don't ghost people if they're not abusive and you're not in danger, that will just encourage them to try to get in contact with you.
I’m talking about the girlfriend of the so-called best friend. She had to go looking for her boyfriend, who had sneaked away from the party to get into bed with OP.
OP trying to transfer some of the blame to best friend’s girlfriend for failing to wake the two of them up is utter nonsense. Snapping a picture for evidence, sending it to OP’s now-ex, and breaking up was entirely correct.
I think you DO know the answer and that’s why it hurts
They’re better off without you
He is either cheating and paying for her life OR he cheated and she’s blackmailing him to pay for her lifestyle. I would probably do a bit more digging, probably go through his phone. Get your evidence and then either confront or get an attorney.
You consider him a good friend?
Dude same! I’ve had my bestie for 38 years and if my husband ever made a move on her (which is laughable) she would probably slap him. And then tell me. OP’s bestie is not a real bestie
People treat you how they feel. Patterns of behavior tell you how they feel about you over periods of time. What people aren't willing to do shows you where they have drawn the line at what matters. I think you should say something like, “It's been super bothering me that you belittle me constantly, and that needs to stop. I realize I need a partner that builds me up, and I realize now what a major turnoff it is to think it's funny to tear me down.” When he keeps doing it because he doesn't care enough to be a better partner for YOU – -keep your mental energy away from his take on the situation and stay focused on how YOU are being made small so he can laugh. Real kings treat their partners like queens.
If I ever have someone try this on me, I'll only respond “lol. Add me to the group chat”
I'm so confused by this take. Please don't listen to this person. We are all allowed to set boundaries for what we're not okay with in our relationships. That's not being controlling or acting like a parent. That's being a mature adult. If he wasn't okay with it, he could have told you so. You set a reasonable boundary and he chose to go behind your back. Nothing from your post suggests that you are controlling and that this is your fault. I wonder if this person has ever told a partner that they wouldn't be okay with some type of behavior and would accept being called controlling for that.
That's like saying a veteran wanting to skill a murder in a movie is troublesome, and complaining about how there are so many pro war movies.
It's understandable and normal for them.
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I meant in life. I actually scrolled pretty fast back and didn't see anything that directly applied. I brought it here because I'm almost feeling gaslighted that I'm the only person he's talked to that disapproved.
You're both being passive aggressive with that behavior. And an ex should almost always remain an ex. Just block him or tell him hey this isn't working for me I'm out.
Wow. You two are nowhere near being ready for marriage. Marriage is all about the long-term business plan, and you two don't even have the beginnings of one.
It’s called reflection or projection of guilt.
It is a red flag she is insisting on the pull out method. Sounds like she is open to getting pregnant. Both partners have to be on board so it either condom or no sex.
Love languages are a stupid concept. Learn to love that person or break up
You do nothing?
He is allowed to masturbate
Why the fuck are you quizzing your 21 year old son about his sex life and being expected to be told and in what fucked up world are you doing anything about smelling his jizz breath that isn't cleansing your sinuses with Listerine and never, ever thinking of it again?
In the next to last paragraph he says he doesn't want kids, let alone a kid right now.
I'm a nurse. I'm aware there are other birth control methods but most people aren't using diaphragms these days, and copper IUDs have a ton of side effects as well. No one is saying he must have a vasectomy, but if you insist on birth control it's reasonable to expect that you be the one controlling the birth control. Because honestly, even if his partner willingly complies, he has no way of guaranteeing she's taking it correctly or consistently.
I don’t feel like he is freeloading, but I do think there’s times where I feel he doesn’t appreciate what I have been doing. His father has coddled him his whole life up until now, so he’s not used to having adult responsibilities. Unfortunately, I did not know this, until we moved in together. There were probably flags from the beginning, but I must’ve subconsciously ignored him. All of the other men I dated before never made me feel like I was the center of their world like he does. But he does slip in household chores. Example: I cooked a special dinner the other night after I finished work and asked him to clean up as I was very tired. He said he’d do it and I fell asleep. I woke up the next morning to the same mess I had left turns out he got stuck playing video games and forgot due to his ADHD. And yes I feel the need to stress how nude I work and am not spoiled because he throws it in my face that I grew up with money and I don’t know what it’s like wondering what or when the next meal will be and I should be grateful to eat whatever. Eating at that restaurant is a sacrifice to me because he’s always saying how he does things he doesn’t like to do I.e. watch anime with me; even though he doesn’t want to because he’s not interested. I’ve sacrificed a lot more like my money and relationship with my family to be with him, but I don’t like to bring that up to him because he’ll say I’m throwing that in his face. Idk
And you are buying all this? So have charges been brought
What is there to confront? You’re not dating so you’re not really entitled to anything.
I'm wondering how much pressured he feels to fast? My understanding is that fasting is between you and God. I get that the point is about the lying but you yourself admit that it's very important to you that your husband is fasting. So what is it? The lying or the fasting? If you figure out what's important to you seek the conversation with your partner and understand that there is a lot of cultural pressure on him. Even though in theory it is each individual's business if they are fasting or not.
what the hell???? yeah i wouldn’t put up with that shit. it’s only been 3 days and she’s already losing her mind???
what the hell???? yeah i wouldn’t put up with that shit. it’s only been 3 days and she’s already losing her mind???
What the actual…… bless her for not having to deal with endometriosis herself. Don’t force yourself you’re in pain if she loves you sex can wait. Because you two are what’s important, sex is just the cherry on the cake.
Can you compromise and have one weekend day to sleep in for you and one to get up and get moving?
It's common to have different sleeping patterns. I am an early to bed early riser and my BF is a night owl sleeping in kinda guy. He's actually sleeping in right now
I love this, as I get a little me time in the morning on the weekends. I just quietly sip coffee and browse the internet until he gets up. My kids are older though, so they sleep in, too.
Ask your husband to consider it quality bonding time while you get catch up on sleep you didn't get during the week. If you don't actually have obligations, there's no real need to rush things on the weekends.
Him being gross is not changing your perception of him but your idea of him. He is, in fact, disgusting and you are slipping into a mommy role wich is gross too and will soon kill your attraction to him. Might as well just dump him now.