(18f) my (19m) boyfriend is upset because i didn’t want to have sex

we’ve been dating for a while now and i let him take my virginity just a week ago. it was a really big deal for me and i was very nervous in doing so. everything has been nearly perfect with him so far. we talked about having sex today, but i just wasn’t in the mood for it around the time he was supposed to come over. it’s still painful for me and i have a huge fear of getting pregnant. i told him and he got really upset. he hasn’t spoken to me for about 4 hours and said he wasn’t gonna bother coming over anymore. when i said i didn’t mean to upset him, he said “Yeah but that’s the only thing Ive been looking forward to doing this whole boring ass week. Like imagine having a gf and you can’t fuck her. I know I shouldn’t be begging for some from my own gf”. i wasn’t expecting this response at all. is this a red flag? or is does he have a right to be upset?

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