Update- After thinking about it a lot I had decided to breakup with the girl. I would like to get engaged plus married at some point and it appears a very big risk to get married with her knowing what I know now. Yes I realize anyone can change during the course of relationship but this seems like I would be walking into the marriage constantly waiting for the other footwear to drop. I dont wish to be in a marriage where the brain is in a constant state of guard. It would be unfair for the both of us. The girl deserves to be trusted fully and I deserve to really feel safe with my companion, which for me is not possible now once she opened this door and informed me she would like to sleep along with others if I was onboard. I dont know how to close the door and pretend such as everything is normal. So I will tell her tonight which i am sorry but its not possible for me to continue in this relationship. Thank you to everyone that took out their time to give advice.
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