#@@#@!![29M] [28F] my wife had a drunken one night stand

I 29M found out my partner 28F had a one night time stand while on vacation to check out her parents.

Several background. I met my spouse in a different part of the nation from where I grew up. We had 2 kids through her home state before we moved to my home state after 2 years in case marriage. We have a total associated with 4 children. 7, five, 3, 1 .

I am the sole provider for the loved ones. My wife and I both made the decision that we would rather her raise our kids and when they got old she would finish school and begin working again (she just started going back to school this year) our marriage has not been perfect by any means both of us are stubborn but there was clearly always love and we both always worked on being a better couple.

We don' t have enough money for all of us to go to her home state more then once a year. To make associated with for this my wife has consistently flown by herself with all the newest baby once or twice additional year. This year was the 1st year I told her to visit alone and enjoy her period with her parents.

The lady had a 10 year highschool reunion the first night the lady was back and ended up drinking way to much (normally she doesn' t drink at all) she told me she had a Margarita and 5 shots of tequila at night time and ended up going back with her friends house with the girl ex boyfriend and she had sexual intercourse with him. She states he started it and she simply went along with it.

She was very distance through me the whole trip so when she got home and finally broke down and told me the day before Christmas.

I was crushed. She was said to be my person, by closest friend, my everything and I don' t know what to do. Whenever we divorce she will home to her home state and am will lose my children and they’ll loose there entire lives and all the friends they have made. I don' capital t know if I can forgive her for what she did. She is very apologetic and remorseful and is performing like the perfect wife for the time being….. What should I do?

TLDR My wife had a drunken 1 night stand with the girl ex boyfriend while on vacation to go to her parents