I don' t even know where to begin with how violated I feel. My girlfriend and am have been together for two years, and we had an abortion inside our first few months of adult dating. I didn' t believe anything of it, we' lso are young and far from ready to have kids let alone the truth that we barely knew one another back then. The experience brought us closer.
I drove her home from the clinic and he or she cried tears of joy because of how relieved she was, it was really rather beautiful. I was so content for her. Now, we' re in the same situation, she' s 6 weeks expectant, and it turns out, she has certainly not been on birth control. We' ve been getting by only using condoms, and he or she said the last time there were sex she was tampering with the condoms because she WANTED to get pregnant.
I feel ill to my fucking stomach. I want to vomit. I feel violated. Like I' ve been raped or something. I don' t want this child, and I don' t want to be with her anymore. The lady lied to me. My partner said she didn' big t know if she really wants to get an abortion this time, and that she wanted this all along and regretted her first abortion.
The actual fuck does that mean? What am I meant to do? All my friends are telling me to step up and take responsibility but the girl USED ME! I don' t know this woman anymore. I really do feel like I' ve been raped, and she' s pregnant. I don' t desire to be a fucking father, not with her. What can I actually do?
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