We rented an apartment at the beach last week after comming back from the beach I wanted to make a reservation to go eat somewhere she suggested I use her phone to make the call. I (accidentally) pressed messages instead of phone. Discovered that she was messaging this guy last week and setting up a date with him. She picked him up at the train station. I obviously confronted her about this. She started swearing that she’s sorry and that she only smoked a joint with him and that when he stepped in the car that she immediately regretted it, at the end she dropped him off which is a 2hr drive. For me that’s cheating. When I look back at that timeframe when they went on a “date” I checked our WhatsApp conversation of that day and lo and behold it’s the day she told me that she was going out with her female friend and she took ages to reply me, normally she replies back within 20 minutes or so but that day she took ages to respond to my messages. We even argued about it that day she kept saying she was with her friend and that I was overreacting. I broke up with her about all of this and she keeps calling me saying im overreacting that I break up a 2 year relationship because of her smoking a joint with someone. But that’s not the case I broke up because she lied to me and broke my trust. Like how could she do that. Her reasoning for seeing this guy was that I always duck the question about having a future with her. I don’t know what to do. We made up again because I felt bad and got weak and took her back but deep inside I don’t know how I will ever trust her again. Am I wasting my time ?
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