We have been married for 3 years after relationship for an additional 4. At first, he was sweet in my opinion and we helped each other out there. After about a year into marriage though, it entered a decline where he seems I shouldn' t end up being working and that his work can take care of everything while I prepare to be a mom (we don' t have kids yet).
I experienced taken aback but I hoped this would be a phase. A few days ago though, I discovered on his phone by accident text messages that he was having sex along with someone else and complained how insufferable I was.
When I faced him, he said the sex was just intercourse and that it wasn' capital t cheating because he wasn' t in love with her the way this individual was with me. I informed him it was unacceptable but he got fed up and for the first time, not just hit me personally but brutally punched me personally over and over where I had to the hospital to make sure it wasn' t life threatening.
I' m currently staying at my moms and I started ending up in lawyers and divorce attorneys despite him bombarding the cell phone with apologies, bogus promises, and threats associated with self harm. Maybe this is me just venting this particular out for validation but how can a guy like that go through being sweet to so vicious?
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