So… my fiancé (together 5 years) and I both have a hard time getting off. It’s generally just easier for the both of us when we are relaxed, hungover, or sleepy.
I also have a much higher sex drive than him and sometimes he stays up later than me. So I told him that if he feels like going solo in the middle of the night I think it would be really very hot for him to use me instead. I’m a pretty light sleeper but it tends to be better for the both of us when I pretend I’m sleeping because there’s no performance anxiety.
He is also super gentle with me (until I wake up and it turns into rough sex which in turn would distract us from the end goal) and would 100% stop if I ever asked him to. I had to tell him multiple times that it was ok before he even tried it.
But… now I’m internalizing that I might be fucked up in the head because of this fetish. Am I crazy?
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