For context, I have been dating this girl for a little over 6 months now.
The other night the girl came over to my residence and we were snuggled up on the couch watching TV. The girl was on her phone and talking to her friends via text messaging. On the count of she was snuggled facing me, her phone was easily in my peripheral. I actually happened to glance over and saw that she had been making an exchange associated with conversation with her buddy about her " work crush".
I didn' t really see how much additional the depth of the conversation went. However , I did note that she told her friend that will she was going to send pictures of him and contact her to talk about it later on.
I didn' t deal with her on the spot because I used to be just trying to process what the fuck I just witnessed. Furthermore, needed to make sure I can obtain composure of my feelings before I got myself directly into an inevitable argument.
I eventually confronted her as to what I had seen. I pretty much told her to get lost and go and try and get with your " work crush" you' re so keen on.
It' s not like We expected her to not find other men attractive. It' s just that to me, this particular seems like a humongous red flag. The fact that she is discussing this so-called " work crush" amongst her friends is not normal behavior of someone within a relationship. Even more so proclaiming that she will provide pictures of him and give further details (obviously when I was not around).
I think that I made the decision that any man along with dignity would make.
Quite frankly, I' m still very upset and sick to my stomach about the whole thing. Curious to hear outside points of views.
Thanks for reading.
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