I just found out my (32f) bf (31m) hooked up with my cousins daughter (24f) 10 years ago. Do I have the right to feel grossed out? Should I just let it go?

We have been together for 5 years and he was dating someone else 5 years before me. My cousin told me about this. I was upset all day and finally talked to him about it. He said he only made out with her at a party and she was probably 14. I feel disgusted but I don't know if I'm overreacting. I already have to deal with his ex because she is a friend of a friend of mine and although it was very awkward and uncomfortable for me I made the effort to get over it and be nice to her. This situation just sucks. I know the past is the past, and he didn't have sex with her but it still makes me uncomfortable. I spoke to him calmy about how it made me feel and he got pissed off that it's bothering me. I moved to his town and he's lived here forever so I guess it's normal that I run into exes and ex hookups but I have never been in this situation before. I just wanted him to give me security and comfort, instead of get defensive

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