My fiancé and I both agreed that we would change our phone numbers after we got engaged because we both have phone numbers that we had for over a decade. We thought that the best way to leave the past in the past would be to get brand new phone numbers and only bring in the contacts of our friends and family that are currently part of our lives now. I recently found out that my fiancé has been emailing with someone from his past that he did not bring into his new phone. Based on the messages it seems that she has been trying to reach him via mail,email, and telephone. He doesn’t have social media so this girl finally had an old connection email my fiancé to get his contact information. He ended up sharing his phone number with her via email to this mutual connection. Now I want to mention that I recognize this girl as a person intentionally didn’t bring into his new number. He told me that she previously tried to get him to date her sister in the past. But from what I could see in past conversations when he finally told her about me, she told him that I was too old for him which I thought was kind of negative for being a “friend”.
What are your thoughts on this? He gave this mutual connection his phone number to give to her and when she did not call him, he asked the mutual connection for her phone number. I can see this all in the email chain. What he’s told me about her in the past is that she previously tried to get him to date her sister. It seems strange and too persistent that someone who only wanted you to date their sister would go through all these different avenues (mail, email, mutual connections)to try to get in contact with you.
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