On the first topic:

The subreddit is a location for people to ask for advice on what to do next. I know it sounds dumb, but questions like " Is this normal? ", " Am I wrong", " Am I an asshole", " Is this fair" or basically any questions wondering about whether something that happened in the past was okay… these types of aren' t requesting suggestions about what to do next, so they' re not appropriate for the subreddit.

Instead, content should ask questions like

" what should I perform next? " or
" how can i do this? " or
" how can I fix this? " etc .

If you have a question around some thing you think you want to do yet aren' t sure in the event that it' s a good idea, instead of asking (for instance) " is this a good idea" or " would I become the asshole, " try to motivate depth, like " I' m thinking about doing this. What do you think I should do right here? " That way you' lmost all get better answers than just a ' yes' or ' number ' Or at the very least, individuals might tell you why you should do the thing you already have in mind.

We' re currently immediately removing variations of the following (these phrases aren' capital t all exact):

" Is this regular? ", " Am We wrong", " Is it wrong", " Am I the particular asshole", " Am I in the wrong", " Would I be an asshole", " Would I become the asshole", " AITA", " WIBTA", " Should I have got done", " Who' s right here", " Had been I wrong", " Should I have to", " Am I overreacting", " are I justified", " is usually reasonable", " Am I at fault", " Had been it irresponsible for", " am I out of line", " is this a big deal", " Isn' t that will fucked up? ", " Am I the bad one", " Am We being too sensitive", " Is it weird", " Was I right"

So hopefully this gives you an idea of what shouldn' t be published here. If your question is a yes/no question about something which happened in the past (like all those are), change your question.

On the 2nd topic:

if you have a question regarding any sexual situations concerning minors (anyone under eighteen for the purposes of this subreddit; it doesn' t matter what your local laws say), actually concerns around potential grooming, please don' t publish them here.

In the event that you' re a minor and also have questions involving sexual subjects, consider reaching out to either your parents or sex education/family life resources in your college on these topics, or even if you' re uncomfortable, consider a resource such as:

Scarleteen

If you' re a small or know of a minor with sexual or potentially sexual interactions with an adult, instead of submitting here, please speak with a teacher, therapist, counselor, social worker, or other mandatory reporter or appropriate grownup with your concerns and certainly make use of the following resources:

It' s safe to say that no one here on this subreddit is expertly, legally, or ethically qualified to give advice on these subjects, so we' re deferring to expert resources and hotlines like the ones over.