There was this girl I was buddies with that I had a crush on in college. Our current gf wants to understand how much i' ve used on this girl and what I' ve bought for her. I' ve told my gf that will whatever I had bought and spent was returned 50/50. Say I bought food in the cafeteria for her, she would protect it the next day we got.
I told my gf that whatever happened during this time did not matter to her due to the fact we weren' t collectively and she was also seeing somebody else during that time. Now, the girl demands that I pull these types of statements up to see if 1 ) I' m lying plus 2 . for closure and when I don' t she' s gonna break it off. I tried to problem her as well by inquiring why would it even matter and what it would do for the relationship etc . Because it simply seems that she just desires another reason to be sad/upset by catching me in a lie/trapping me with trying to recount what I' ve completed with this person as friends now ex-friends.
I' meters about to send her these statements but I just think it is sad. what do i do? I' m more wondering about why my girlfriend would certainly care so much about a time we weren' t jointly.
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