We dated for 4 years, he was my only friend my best friend, and I was his only as well. I loved us, we had it good for about 3.5 years then things went south. I brought up that I wanted to buy a house and he kind of got distant. He told me he's not ready for a house. I said that's fine because I would be the one paying for everything, I wouldn't force him to live with me and I would only charge him a couple of bills if he wanted to move in, I was happy with either decision.
Later he told me that he doesn't really want to on-line with me and that I'm trying to grow up too fast. He says we need to prioritize having fun since we're both in our early 20's. Truth is, I had so much fun with him. Part of me wants to wait around because he just says he needs time then he'll come back to me. Another part of me is so worried that we're over and I'm in huge denial. Advice?
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