My 22f boyfriend 31m told me that I’m being selfish for not wanting to have sex.

A throwaway account because I don't want anyone knowing who I am. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. We met at an event that our mutual friend had invited us to and we ended up exchanging numbers at the end. We found out that we had a lot in common and I was attracted to his confidence, good looks, sense of humor, and as it turns out, great in bed. For past few weeks I've been having some health issues and the doctor recommended that I should cease any intense activities that might cause my problems to spiral out of control. Which includes sex. You would think that he wouldn't mind waiting a few weeks or months until I recovered, which I thought he would because he does care about me. This morning I woke up to him penetrating me and when I asked him what the hell he was doing he replied and I quote "I'm getting what I'm owed. You had enough time to recover. Now it's time to stop being selfish and pay". I let him finish because I was afraid how he might have reacted if I resisted and now I don't know if I can ever see him the same way again. I want to forgive him because I still love him but is being with someone who wants you to have sex with them no matter what "healthy"?

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