My (26f) husband (30m) cheated. I have proof. He won’t admit. How do I get him to just admit it already?!

Husband had an affair 3 years into our marriage. He saw her continuously and lied to me about the nature of their relationship. “Friends” he would say then “business partners”. I found out then he “stopped seeing her” two different times. Idk why I keep taking it. Anyways it’s over “for good” about two months ago with other woman. Fast forward to today I see a video of him playing in a sports league. In the background? Her. Same day he gets new shoes and a watch band. Says he “got it from Kohls” but immediately throws away the box it came in, in the garbage outside.I looked because it was suspicious.It’s a crappy non name brand “fashion shoes” on the box. i immediately find the shoes on shein. Confront him about the lie he deflects and says he can be mad at me for so much. Says I saw her on the video next to his stuff. He Lies AGAIN. Says it’s not her. I’m like dude I know this girl (who btw knows he’s married and likes sneaking around) went to your game and gave you some cheap shoes and he just flounders and doesn’t say shit. It’s so frustrating just admit to the shit already! Says I’m crazy for looking in the trash after he acted the way he did it’s nuts am I being gaslighted? How do I get him to admit?

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