(Using a throwaway account) My (29M) gf (29F) asked me if I'd be interested in swinging. Before answering I asked her back if she would be interested to which she said "yes". I said I wouldn't be interested as we're in a monogamous relationship and I am not comfortable with her sleeping with other men. Her answer surprised me so I asked her a few follow up questions because I wanted to understand where she's coming from. She noticed I got concerned so played it off as "just joking". However talking about the topic she made another comment about how I am "not open-minded and only want to keep her in a little box for myself anyway". She saw I am concerned so she told me multiple times that she was only joking and she's in fact not interested in swinging. What do you guys think?
For context our relationship started 18 months ago as an open-relationship which eventually turned into a monogamous one (after a mutual agreement). The fact that we are both not very vocal about feelings and only recently she expressed her feelings to me and how she fell in love with me a few months ago made her question about swinging even more surprising to me.
submitted by /u/ThrowRAAtmosphere999
[link] [comments]