I (41f) discovered over a year ago that my husband (43m) was messaging his ex gfs. All the messages were platonic and basically just catch ups as he grew up with most of them.
In the past month I’ve discovered that he has set up a dating profile under a different name and city nowhere near us.
I feel like I’m never going to be enough for him. We’ve been together decades and have a family and a business. I get people get lonely I do too but I just want to breakdown.
I don’t feel like I can confront him as I was snooping. My friend thinks he is testing and wouldn’t actually do anything, but I don’t know what to think.
Anyone else been in a similar position? Any advice is welcome is greater appreciated
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