My boyfriend (20m) broke up with me (21f) after he cheated on me

My boyfriend (20m) broke up with me (21f) after he cheated on me

So almost 3 weeks ago he told me that he had kissed a colleague. They could talk well about their youth, which caused the spark to fly.

Within 24 hours he had told me the truth. I appreciated that. And since it was a kiss, I could forgive that too. But now I don't know if that was the biggest mistake of my life.

After 2 weeks of crying, talking and discussions, he decided to end the relationship. One time he indicates that he is not ready for a relationship, the other time he says he is no longer in love. But I do know that it's definitely over, as much as I wish we could get back together someday.

I don't know what to do with the situation, I'm really devastated. And he is now in contact with that colleague he cheated with, but can't say for sure that they won't get anything together. Why can't I be mad at him?

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