My wife and I have been together for 13 yrs total.
Her wedding ring is moderately flashy but nothing amazing. Her childhood friend gifted her a pretty flash ring for her birthday.
I thought it was awesome but she wears it instead of mine. Not on her ring finger but on her other fingers.
I asked why she does that and she claims she doesn't want to lose it or she forgets to put it back on after taking it off to do house work or work from home.
This weekend, we were invited to an anniversary party. We were all ready and noticed she was wearing her friends ring and not her wedding ring so I asked if she was going to put it on.
She says no, that she was okay without it and hurried out the door. I ask her why she wasn't going to wear it. She claimed it didn't match with her outfit.
It didn't sit right with me so I asked her if she liked her friends ring better than the ring I bought her. She said NO and to drop it.
I said no, I want to know why you decide to wear her ring and not the one I gave her on our wedding day.
She didn't say anything but told me I sure know how to ruin a night. She was upset pretty much the whole time.
I just want to know why she decides not to wear my ring.
Any advice or ideas ?
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