Our (28F) husband (30M) started doing something absolutely gross that I can’t tolerate

I' m too ashamed to write this on my main account.

Regarding 3 weeks ago, I used to be cleaning and found a bottle under the bed which was wrapped in a piece of material, in a pretty clumsy way. Like it was supposed to be concealed. I didn' t wish to believe what I was seeing but it really looked like someone pissed inside it. I literally put up. I could just speculate that it was my husband and somehow he wanted to hide it from me. About a 7 days later, I was up past due into the night and I noticed my husband ACTUALLY PEEING inside another bottle. I snapped at him but all of us didn' t have a conversation because it was very late. Next day he told me he gets really lazy to the bathroom at night, so he just pees into the bottle and cleans it up in the morning. I am beyond disgusted. This shit is breakup worthy for me, to be honest.

He shifted to being protective about it now. He says his depression is making him demotivated even to move, therefore he has to do this. I want to empathize with him because their mental health has taken a nosedive recently, but it' s just so intolerable. Like, he doesn' capital t grasp how absolutely dreadful this is or even says he' ll do a better work. I can' t think I have to deal with this.

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