My wife and I are currently separated. We had therapy these days and I came away harm and more sure than ever that I' m making the appropriate decision to move on.
She for a while described why the lady was upset and why she missed me…….. also it was not for the reasons you' d expect or I' d hope for. She literally said she missed having someone to " pick me up from the airport", " pick up the dog tomorrow", " pick up the groceries plus make sure we don' t run out of soda water", " get me coffee", etc ..
Everything she stated was a task that I carried out for her. Nothing else. Things that might be done by hired assist. She didn' t skip anything loving or passionate or caring. She skipped being waited on by a servant.
I was appalled. We still cannot believe (well, I can) that that' s what she skipped. I miss her giggle. I miss her grin. I miss the warmth of her breath on our hands while we fall asleep. I miss the smell of her hair. I actually miss the comfort of knowing I won' capital t die alone.
We' re so far apart from what we worth in a relationship. It’s therefore sad.
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