Update : I (42F) told his (32M) wife about the affair

First of all, a big thank you to everyone that offered their input on the situation.

There was a lot of concern on whether I had any evidence to support my story and whether I had his real name/contact info. I had saved every interaction between us from day one, and I also had his and the wife’s social media.

I wrote to her privately from a throwaway account, explaining why I decided to reveal myself, how we met, and how it ended. I attached a few screenshots that showed our chat on the dating app, his profile, and our last message exchange where I found out about his marital status.

She blocked me after checking my messages. I don’t know what happened or what will happen, but at least I know that she knows. I’m not sure if there’s going to be any further development from this.

Thanks again to everyone that took the time to read and comment on my previous post.