You are getting handed all of the red flags on a red flag adorned silver platter after only 4 months ans you're entertaining the thought of marrying this guy???
Run. Far away. Never look back. This guy will only get worse, much much worse.
All the desire and mutual mind reading in the world can't always make up for it when two people just have very different attitudes about the world. If she's socially avoidant she's ever going to be the life of the party. If you're someone who needs social interactions to recharge you you're never going to be someone happy to lead a more quiet, insular life. These are incompatibilities that likely won't change with age. So you two can either each force yourselves out of your innate comfort zones, or you can have a mature conversation about the fact that love alone is never enough to make a relationship work. Good luck
You need to break up with him. He has no respect for you
You are getting handed all of the red flags on a red flag adorned silver platter after only 4 months ans you're entertaining the thought of marrying this guy???
Run. Far away. Never look back. This guy will only get worse, much much worse.
He should go to therapy separately and then you guys go to couples counseling.
All the desire and mutual mind reading in the world can't always make up for it when two people just have very different attitudes about the world. If she's socially avoidant she's ever going to be the life of the party. If you're someone who needs social interactions to recharge you you're never going to be someone happy to lead a more quiet, insular life. These are incompatibilities that likely won't change with age. So you two can either each force yourselves out of your innate comfort zones, or you can have a mature conversation about the fact that love alone is never enough to make a relationship work. Good luck