Hon, the problem here is he's too young to make a commitment like marriage and you've been together so long. He hasn't sown his wild oats. He hasn't experienced dating enough different people. I think you would have very valid worries going into a marriage with this person.
This will be a bitter pill but I'm going to suggest that you call off the wedding and break up and date other people. Or don't date, but break up anyway. Although being in the military you should have no shortage of guys to date if you want to.
But first get him to wipe all your spicy pictures off his phone. Sit there and watch him do it.
You're probably right. But I do know if he was told he was being served then I would find myself in an unsafe environment. I'm in another town to be safe. I'm not going to make it difficult. I'll let him keep what he needs and walk away with what I already have.
He never warned me he was going to snap all those girls either or add all those pornstars and young girls on Instagram and humiliate me in front of my friends and family so they would message me to tell me and gossip about it either so I guess we are even there.
Know that if he gets weird about you meeting them, or they're weird about meeting you, then there's something going on.
Hon, the problem here is he's too young to make a commitment like marriage and you've been together so long. He hasn't sown his wild oats. He hasn't experienced dating enough different people. I think you would have very valid worries going into a marriage with this person.
This will be a bitter pill but I'm going to suggest that you call off the wedding and break up and date other people. Or don't date, but break up anyway. Although being in the military you should have no shortage of guys to date if you want to.
But first get him to wipe all your spicy pictures off his phone. Sit there and watch him do it.
Best of luck to you in everything.
You're probably right. But I do know if he was told he was being served then I would find myself in an unsafe environment. I'm in another town to be safe. I'm not going to make it difficult. I'll let him keep what he needs and walk away with what I already have.
He never warned me he was going to snap all those girls either or add all those pornstars and young girls on Instagram and humiliate me in front of my friends and family so they would message me to tell me and gossip about it either so I guess we are even there.