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I don’t know if it’s her own guilty conscience coming back or if she really doesn’t trust me.
She is trying to even the playing field from being the shitbag in the relationship, you would obviously find neighbor attractive and would cheat if you could, so therefore.. she's convincing herself you'll cheat of you could so she can sleep better at night feeling less guilty and more justified.
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PPD does not cause or excuse cheating.
You believe that because you NEED to believe that.
I am so sick of women getting a pass for cheating because of their hormones or some ridiculous bullshit like that. it's either hormones or their man didn't do something for them in some way or they felt neglected. (but when a man cheats he's just shit, no valid “reasons”)
None of if it an excuse, NONE of it. and I am willing to bet that while she feels guilty, she actually believes it's not her fault. Her guilt lays not in the action and decision making but in failing to get help for her mental status and if you cheat, you'll be on the lower moral pole.
Let's also not forget she left her CHILD. Did she go to the hotel bar expecting to get aid, or was it happenstance, did she think she was coming home but the guy was so great a 14 day fuck fest was needed?
When you cheat on someone, especially a spouse, you do not love nor respect them, period.
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No I really have no clue, what do I sound like I want? Because I’ve tried to gauge my in intuitive response but it’s empty.
No
I don’t know if it’s her own guilty conscience coming back or if she really doesn’t trust me.
She is trying to even the playing field from being the shitbag in the relationship, you would obviously find neighbor attractive and would cheat if you could, so therefore.. she's convincing herself you'll cheat of you could so she can sleep better at night feeling less guilty and more justified.
That said…
PPD does not cause or excuse cheating.
You believe that because you NEED to believe that.
I am so sick of women getting a pass for cheating because of their hormones or some ridiculous bullshit like that. it's either hormones or their man didn't do something for them in some way or they felt neglected. (but when a man cheats he's just shit, no valid “reasons”)
None of if it an excuse, NONE of it. and I am willing to bet that while she feels guilty, she actually believes it's not her fault. Her guilt lays not in the action and decision making but in failing to get help for her mental status and if you cheat, you'll be on the lower moral pole.
Let's also not forget she left her CHILD. Did she go to the hotel bar expecting to get aid, or was it happenstance, did she think she was coming home but the guy was so great a 14 day fuck fest was needed?
When you cheat on someone, especially a spouse, you do not love nor respect them, period.