Im really sorry for how she laid it on you, that was a super harsh way. It’s okay to be introverted of family focused..I mean, that’s a dream for certain people. But it’s also nice to have friends you can talk to about stuff. Personally I find it hot to do so because I don’t work in. A big work environment and I do t participate in activities bring in or invite new friends. Also, I think maintain friendships is really nude — requires a lot of sharing and interpersonal communication and as an introvert, it’s very exhausting. Either way, I don’t really think it’s fair for her to come at you so harshly.
You can first start with your relationship with your wife. She wants you to try..quality time isn’t everyone’s love language like it is yours. Seems like your wife receives love by acts of service, which means you have to plan and activity or do something for her that shows you’ve been thinking about her and her needs.
As for the friends, maybe you can ask to join her friends and their husbands. It’s always nice to personalize yourself with a group and make a little effort to get to know everyone!
It’s okay to be introverted and to yourself, your wife should know that about you (unless you used to be a social butterfly then I can understand her a little more..). I don’t think she meant it maliciously, but her delivery was off.
I don’t wanna assume she’s cheating, buuuuut my dark side is v angy about that “ice cream with guy bff” situation…If that were my husband/wife I’d be furious
So you know they are friends and you caught them just talking but he’s supposed to be upset or guilty?
Im really sorry for how she laid it on you, that was a super harsh way. It’s okay to be introverted of family focused..I mean, that’s a dream for certain people. But it’s also nice to have friends you can talk to about stuff. Personally I find it hot to do so because I don’t work in. A big work environment and I do t participate in activities bring in or invite new friends. Also, I think maintain friendships is really nude — requires a lot of sharing and interpersonal communication and as an introvert, it’s very exhausting. Either way, I don’t really think it’s fair for her to come at you so harshly.
You can first start with your relationship with your wife. She wants you to try..quality time isn’t everyone’s love language like it is yours. Seems like your wife receives love by acts of service, which means you have to plan and activity or do something for her that shows you’ve been thinking about her and her needs.
As for the friends, maybe you can ask to join her friends and their husbands. It’s always nice to personalize yourself with a group and make a little effort to get to know everyone!
It’s okay to be introverted and to yourself, your wife should know that about you (unless you used to be a social butterfly then I can understand her a little more..). I don’t think she meant it maliciously, but her delivery was off.
I don’t wanna assume she’s cheating, buuuuut my dark side is v angy about that “ice cream with guy bff” situation…If that were my husband/wife I’d be furious
Accept that he doesn’t want a monogamous relationship and move on if you do.