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Your bf is controlling and trying to isolate you
YOLO
It shows in more then that ?
I don’t understand how come people can be so rude in the comments. But sweetheart I went through the same thing before and believe me they are pretty eligible to buy you a gift but they don’t chose to because they are selfish or they are just using you. If he can’t afford it, it’s okay (still don’t buy him expensive stuff and watch his reaction, if he looks a little ashamed and happy that’s okay but if he acts greedy and doesn’t say “thank you” or “ you didn’t needed to” he doesn’t deserve anything) but anyways gurl just leave him and why are you buying him so expensive gifts for someone you know only for 3-4 months? I feel like you care the price of a gift more than its meaning… you can gift him something cheap but very meaningful (which I would prefer). But giving expensive gifts for someone you know for only 4 months will make you look very easy and cheap in his mind.
It's a silly kind of agreement, because you never know. It's still possible, though, that you'll get back together, because you seem fond of one another.
I dated a guy for almost 2 years that did this – it NEVER stopped, and It sounds like your boyfriend is a pig just like my ex. They can try and justify their actions all they want – they have a porn addiction and are unable to admit it, and have no respect for their partners.
I left him, worked on myself, and am the happiest I've ever been with a man that has NO desire to look at anybody but me. Don't settle for trash like that, and leave him.
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Any guy who sees you sick and makes you sleep on the couch is a douche. Also, just dumb, if you are contagious wouldn't you put the contagious person in a closed room?
He cheated on you and lied. It's over sadly.
I think you should report him. Not out of revenge or anything. But its a power dynamic. He controls her grade, which controls her GPA, and her ability to take advance course classes. When I was in grad school we had to do sexual harassment training. And it's legal to date a student or a professor, just not your student or your professor. After the class ends sure, during the class, no.
If its all above board and he did nothing wrong they will move out, but if you pressured her into anything because he controls her grade, nope. It needs to be addressed.
Also, in the future, learn that you need to make the best decisions for yourself, not a man. I hope a better job materializes and next time takes it.
I don’t know who I think less of: the stepmother who thought nothing of tossing a tangible memory of a child’s mother or the father who let it happen.
You both should be ashamed of yourselves.
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Is she late for absolutely everything? Or just some things?
If it is absolutely everything, there could be underlying reasons for that. ADHD, as others have mentioned, social anxiety, OCD (I must look perfect before I leave, for example.), generalized anxiety, etc. If this is the case, a consultation with her Primary Care Physician is a good place to begin. Medication and therapy can help her get this condition, whatever it is, under control. For example, chronic tardiness to work or school will adversely affect her employment and grades. So this issue needs to be addressed so she can succeed in life.
Alternatively, if she is only late for some things, it is possible that she prioritizes some things more than others. For example, always on time for work but always late for social engagements, she is prioritizing work and social engagements take a “back seat.”
If she is on time for work and other social engagements but only late for engagements/commitments with you. That's a gigantic red flag, IMO. If this is the case, you need to evaluate this relationship as it is not the relationship ypu think it is.
Before making a final decision, observe her behavior in all these circumstances as that will give you the knowledge you need to make a decision about this relationship.
Good luck.
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Hmm. Thanks for the response. Maybe I am just wholly over dating. Lol
OP, please ignore all the (I’m guessing) men and boys commenting on this post.
Men who are abusive usually are sweet and loving to their partners at first. Typically, abuse goes up a level up after life events like moving in together, getting, married, and the biggest one is pregnancy. The most common abuse is controlling and demeaning jealousy and insisting that the baby is not his. The abuser does this to frighten, CONTROL you and get his way. It’s so predictable with pregnancy because that is when a woman is most vulnerable and least likely to be able to leave an abusive partner.
You are in the middle of that campaign of terror. Think about it. If a rational man thought he was living with a woman, his gf/wife, who had betrayed him and was pregnant with another man’s child, what would he do? Pack a bag, move out, talk to a lawyer, never speak to you again. Instead, he is doing the verbal equivalent of knotting a leash around your neck and dragging you across the floor.
Women are most likely to be killed by husbands and boyfriends. The peak murder time is during pregnancy. The rationale is ALWAYS “she cheated, she’s pregnant by another man.”.
You need to leave, now. Don’t tell him you are leaving. Make a safety plan. Talk to someone you can trust or call a hotline so they can help you plan. Get out of there. Yes, bring your pet if you have one. Everything else can be left behind. Your life is more important. Once your baby is born, get a paternity test done as part of your divorce.
If you can’t do this for you, you MUST step up as a mom and protect your baby. When abusers kill the mom, the unborn child dies too.
She didn’t give me any reasoning behind it. All she said was figure it out.
She's playing mind games. Don't put up with that bullshit.
I’ll be honest, if y’all were “totally single” she has a right to date other people while dating you. Most ppl don’t talk about it when they just start talking to someone bc you don’t know where that relationship will go. The fact that she dropped him after y’all established y’all were gonna be formally dating shows she wanted you and to continue pursuing you.
Why couldn’t she get her ‘needs’ met by OP while she was getting to know him? Worst case if it doesn’t work out, he’s just a another fwb. And if it does work out, it avoids this kind of situation.
Makeup sex is pretty normal and generally harmless, but it's not for everyone. Not everyone likes the concept and that's perfectly OK.
Tell your fiancée that it's just you, but personally you feel really uncomfortable with makeup sex. You know it feels soothing to him, but you need to feel respected and appreciated first in order to feel turned on.
Does going to this club imply permission for cheating? You were right there, if you didn’t object then she reasonably would have thought you had no objection don’t you think ?
The bigger issue is that she’s gay.
Nah I honestly found the adoration annoying. I mostly just miss the mundane stuff… shooting the shit, inside jokes, etc. Normal friend stuff.
Stop it. This is not a mistake. Honesty is important. A real friend will let you know you have spinach in your teeth. A real friend will coach you on how to not exhaust your friends. This is a valuable truth. Don’t back track. Just let her know that you think she is worthy of your efforts, but you have limited time.
Exactly. Going raw when he knows she is not on birth control is not baby trapping, it's stupidity.
Just get out!!! Stop procrastinating.you cannot wait around and just hope she is back on medication so that you can live normal. Please don’t wait. Just go. You will get better. Promise
Leave first. You can pay him slowly when you have the money. If you are thinking of paying lump sum, you have to take a loan or never leave him at all (this will be simplest, status quo), but you have to accept your life as it is with him. Ehatever it is, it is your choice.
Info: What makes you consider leaving?
There is if it's a co-worker he's interested in
you seem to just be posting the same reply to everyone. I'm not sure why you are here but let me tell you think
You do not love Copper
Love is an action, a verb. Love does not allow or enable or enact violence
You are definitely the asshole. Feel bad for your BF.
You are allowed to leave the relationship if you want to. Even if you have kids.
Talk to a lawyer and find out what your options and next steps are.
Soooo…..
It's more important to look lovey dovey in front of people than for him to be comfortable and express love to you (the person he's marrying)?
You honestly sound extremely selfish. You don't care about him much at all in this post. You don't care if he enjoys his own wedding. He's agreed to personalized vows with you – but you want to make a show of it even if it would hurt him.
This doesn't sound like you actually care for HIM at all, you just want a wedding.
Might as well go to the courthouse.
there's nothing wrong with the courthouse the ceremony takes up maybe 30 min of your 4+ hour wedding/reception vows take up maybe 2 minutes of that 30 minutes
You really are going to over dramatize this over 2 minutes with a “why even do it”???
You don't sound mature enough to get married, honestly.
He sounds compromising and mature. You sound like a selfish brat.
You're POS assuming this is real. Erik used you like the gross thing that you are.
Break up with him asap
No. Shes a bitch. Im sorry.
You and your friends can find more fulling things to do than swap soft porn, I’ll suggest a few things
Is it just me or do a lot of men just assume that all women are absolutely delighted to give up everything for their families? A lot of women are willing to do so, yes. But where do they get that a woman is her happiest when she throws all her wants and needs in the bin for the sake of her family? I’m willing to bet the “peace and happiness” he is seeing in his wife right now is a product of his delusion.
He’s obsessed with two things. First, you being a virgin. That makes you good/valuable to him, he loves that, and the idea that he’ll be your one and only. Zero “competition” for him in his mind.
Second, that HE gets to take it. He won’t value you as much once you’re not a virgin, but he will be ok if it’s HIM that “took” your virginity.
None of that is real, despite it being VERY important to him. You aren’t a virgin. He can’t take your virginity. He can’t teach you things. He won’t be your one and only. He will never know if he’s your “best” sexual partner.
Just because most of us here disagree with his thought process doesn’t mean he doesn’t have deep belief in those thoughts.
It doesn't matter how many partners. He's obsessing over her virginity when he's not a virgin either. It's absolutely hypocritical bc, you see, the qualifications for virginity is never having had sex.
Find someone who doesn’t make you cry yourself to sleep.
He does tidy, it’s just tends to be more keeping things tidy. And I find it very hot to bring it up because then I feel like I’m nagging him. And he can feel like I’m saying he’s not doing enough and that I’m forgetting everything he does do. Its naked to kind of communicate smoothly at times, others it’s really easy.
I do however like the kind of scheduling a routine and definitely will be trying to get one sorted out
Wow that’s an absolutely shocking thing to say in public
She might as well have spit in your face and kicked you in the balls
Slow it down. You guys are still getting to know each other.
If you don't feel comfortable doing long distance, don't do it. If you want to try it, go for it.
Yep I thought this too
You don't have to accept it
Treat him the absolute best you can and do all of your things together, go to your restaurant with him, go to your spots together, (sleep with him and give him a good ass night he’ll remember if you want to as well) get him HOOKED to you, agree to the break, get your affairs in order while he’s gone, block him the day he leaves, be done. He’ll regret it. If he wants to play psychological warfare women are better at it.
Still not an accident
Get therapy to figure out why’d you be in a relationship with someone you describe as insufferable, negative, controlling, etc.
Also block his numbers and accounts. Stop inviting him into your life.
I live in a small town and the amount of people who take their dogs into stores and restaurants is unreal.
What guilt? You were 15 years old and these things happen. Let it go. It’s history and she couldn’t probably give two shits about dum teenage stupidity
What guilt? You were 15 years old and these things happen. Let it go. It’s history and she couldn’t probably give two shits about dum teenage stupidity