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Give this same energy to that waste of space you keep entertaining. Your dad doesn’t like him, you’re cousins warned you and you didn’t listen to either: listen now and block him and stop making excuses for him
No, the advice is that you are heading down a path that is only going to hurt yourself and your brothers and, more importantly, isn't going to get you the result you want.
Even if you find the evidence you're looking for (which means nothing, for the record) do you really think Jake is going to be like 'gasp I have been a womble for a decade, I shall now be the bestest older brother!'
Do you think Ryan is going to have any reaction aside from 'oh my god no wonder they all hate me I served my purpose for being born and am now unwanted'?
You're obsessing over an answer that just does not matter, b. Hence why other dude recommended you go speak to a therapist. Because you are about to set out on a journey that only ends in pain and misery.
Explain to her that you're not ready for a life-time commitment to her. Explain how you don't make enough to provide for a family and need to focus on your education and career.
You didn't post most of your story.
My blanket advice is that some people can't be helped out of toxic relationships until they decide they want help.
Everyone is shitty people people. Everyone is good people. There is good and bad in everyone. The world isn't some fairytale storybook. I'll take this shit to the grave like a man. And I'm not a snitch. Lol.
Father Time will save you …
Omg lol. no, sorry for laughing. Sweetheart! You are young and beautiful and have a whole life ahead of you. I'm 20 years older than you and I'm STILL young and naked. You will be alone for exactly as long as you want to be. I hate to belabor the point but you're kind of alone now.
I don't want you to do anything you don't want to do, it just makes me sad when I read all these relationship posts from young women who are just.. accepting things. There are a LOT. If I can give them all one peice of advice/wisdom it is that your BF should never ever ever make you feel sad, or alone. Of course things have their ups and downs, but if the net result is sad or lonely, esp at your age… Well, you get it.
I dont want to break up with her and she wouldn't want me to breakup with her either
and I don think its an emotional affair, we only spoke about superficial things and did not mention or discuss our feelings
It’s fine, he will come home Horny…. All humans look, and fantasize. But he’s coming home to you. Humans are creatures of pleasure, you should enjoy the same.
ESH.
You could just go travelling, its a balls though as renting sucks , could you invest in real estate property and rent it out as a source of income while you travel with her I mean she doesn't seem like she deserves it but also if you love her maybe you gotta try but
Thank you. Will do
I don't think these things are exclusive.
You can be hurt by her doing nothing wrong.
Seeing her paying attention to another man hurt you. Ok, nothing wrong with that.
Her being a fan of something and hopping on stage with the singer to dance and being excited about it, also cool. If she kissed him or went with him to his dressing room without you, that's kinda over the line obviously, but being pulled up on stage in public isn't anything.
You both not talking to each other over this nonsense is the problem. You both need healthier communication or to move on.
I don't think these things are exclusive.
You can be hurt by her doing nothing wrong.
Seeing her paying attention to another man hurt you. Ok, nothing wrong with that.
Her being a fan of something and hopping on stage with the singer to dance and being excited about it, also cool. If she kissed him or went with him to his dressing room without you, that's kinda over the line obviously, but being pulled up on stage in public isn't anything.
You both not talking to each other over this nonsense is the problem. You both need healthier communication or to move on.
? I know it sounds irrational
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I highly endorse being petty to fake friends. Hope you enjoy your party.
Well, when the therapist says in our last minute I want you both to answer this question “Why this person?” It doesn’t seem like the best time to say “Because she got pregnant so I had to marry her and I’ve been miserable ever since.”
This is nuts. My husband and I are both introverts and get our alone time by going into a different room. We are both home 24/7 and have never felt the need to boot the other completely out of the house. I think it’s time to stop bending over backwards for these unreasonable requests. Does he even like you? Why does he need the whole house? Why can’t he leave? This is so outrageously weird I’m not sure it’s fixable
Nothing here sounds malicious but I would firmly tell her that in no way is he staying the night and if that’s a prerequisite for dinner then that’s off as well
To be honest, if it’s that naked of a decision you should probably break up.
It’s possible she already knows he does this so if she ignores you don’t be surprised
We’re in Texas and have one too, sometimes the plant life wants to kill us and we need to fight back.
No, you don't continue the relationship because you have no relationship to continue.
First of all, do not blame yourself for what you said in the airport. You said nothing wrong, nothing that was unreasonable and he is totally gaslighting you on that.
Everything he has said to you has been a lie. Do you actually know, as a proven fact, that his mother died? Are you sure?
Do you know 100% he is who he claims to be and hasn't catfished you?
Either way, it's time to cut your losses. There is nothing wrong with meeting and starting as a LDR but you need to meet. 18 months down the line he has done everything he can to avoid doing that, he has gaslit you, demonstrably lied to you if you ever tried to meet him again, you already know it would be exactly the same.
The fact that he blocked you, his girlfriend, on ANY messaging platform is, IMO, unforgivable and an automatic breakup.
No, you don't show up in Hawaii. He won't be there. Go to Chicago, enjoy your holiday, go home a single woman and move on to dating real people
Makes sense
Jeez, maybe wait until your girlfriend has the baby and life settles down a little before making huge decisions like this.
Pregnancy is a crazy time, her hormones are all over the place, pregnancy literally reshapes the woman's brain.
Also, problems with division of labor in the household are common and can usually be addressed by couples counseling.
There's times in long term relationships where you might not love being with your partner, times are naked, whatever. Part of commitment is getting through these very hot times and choosing to stay together even when it's not the easiest thing to do. If it doesn't start to get better you can always leave, but if you run the second it gets tough you'll never have a long term relationship. You are making a child together, that's the biggest commitment you can have.
Your parents love you (obviously something others haven't experienced). They may be a little too involved, but that doesn't require a nuclear response.
Your BF sounds like a slacker. If it bothers you now it will bother you more over time. Is he the kind of role model you want for your kid?
You can't fix him. And ultimatums don't work long term. He failed your life partner test. Don't apologize….but don't waste one more day on this relationship.
Keep you “Body Count” low,
Please do not tell teenage girls or women in general how much sex to have or not have.
I think he's right that it doesn't matter whether they're attracted to him, but it matters that he's being “nice” while someone is ignoring you in conversation. Like, if I went somewhere with a friend, someone approached us to chat, and they were fawning over me and ignoring my friend, trying to cut them out of the conversation, I would absolutely make an excuse to get me and my friend out of there.
Separately, my partner has the same problem as yours, and he absolutely doesn't let anyone cut me out of a conversation like that. I think the problem here is “don't be nice to people while they're being shitty to people you care about.”
How is this “yes you should be upset”? I thought by saying understand your feelings or sharing your own side of story/experience is a part of healing.
And I can also make the same statement like “While OP's wife needs alone time won't change the fact OP's feelings are being neglect, which is not helping.”
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I have been dating my gf for about 8 months now, and things are going well for the most time. We normally meet once for dinner during the weekdays and then spend the weekend together. But the last time I saw my gf was 2 weeks ago and since then my gf has not wanted to see me because “she needs some space”. The reason she needs the space is because she was hit really naked by the news of her ex getting married.
She dated her for 9 years, from the age of 18 to 27. From what she has told me they broke up because they were not on the same page about the future of the relationship. My gf wanted to get married and he never wanted to get married. So eventually they broke up. Its almost been 4 years since they broke up. I never even suspected my gf might still be having feelings for him, but after watching her strong reaction to his marriage I cant be so sure of that. They guy is getting married to someone he has dated for less than a year, and yes its weird but I dont think it really deserves that much of a reaction. Unless she is still in love with him.
I am at a loss on how to proceed Reddit. Any advice will be appreciated.
Edit/Update- I have decided to breakup with her. But I will wait two more weeks before telling her, hopefully she will be in a better headspace by then.
We met through some mutual friends at a friends New Year’s party. We started spending a lot of time together and eventually we started dating. Looking back on it I perused her way harder than she pursued me. I should’ve known she wasn’t into me.
I am trying to be, and I did not confront anything she said exactly because I didn't want to shut her down. What she said though is that she would not be jealous at all. And she was the one that started the entire discussion after I simply said that some dude was eyeing me, she's not accomodating some want of mine that I presented to her, it looks more like a fantasy of hers that she's pushing. Anyway, I think I get what you're saying.
Yeah 🙁 it’s still very fresh
Yeah, this and my experience with PTSD have me calling bullshit on him saying it's accidental and because of trauma. This was intentional and part of a fetish. Maybe he first went through it when he was abused but it was a choice. You don't just “accidentally” piss all over a partner and ruin their mattress after being balls deep without some thought.
I saw the comment that you love him and want to be with him. If you honestly don’t think that he did this intentionally and it really was a complex mental heath episode, then why not encourage him to see a psychiatrist to have an evaluation done and get treatment?
All I would say on that is that as a partner, because the issue involved sex, you should have the right to be made aware if the situation and what you should be able to expect from him as well as what should reasonably be expected of you. A psychiatrist/therapist could help him with this if he found a good one.
As for what actually happened, my goodness. Who wouldn’t be shocked and who would know the perfect thing to do or say in the moment. You did fine. Technically, you were assaulted. His trauma explains this, but does not necessarily excuse it. And you handled it like a champ. It is now his responsibility as a legal adult to handle his mental health and wellbeing. If you did want to remain in a relationship with him, you could encourage him and be there for reasonable support.
All I’ll say is that long distance relationships are naked and require extra work for both partners to feel secure.
You absolutely need to talk about expectations before they leave. How often will you be checking in? What are visits going to look like? Are you going to take turns driving there or meet in the middle? FaceTiming ? What about other boundaries ? Obviously expectations can change as you get used to it but it has to be talked over.
Wow, you’re gross. Wimmen bad, right?
INFO: are you getting any kind of professional help for your mental health? Have you sought out other forms of support in terms of community groups, group therapy, shared hobbies or social groups around activities?
INFO: are you getting any kind of professional help for your mental health? Have you sought out other forms of support in terms of community groups, group therapy, shared hobbies or social groups around activities?
You MATTER! It’s his behavior that literally stinks. There are basic requirements for any personal interaction and hygiene is one of them.
All I hear from your post is that you are giving everything you have to someone who has not done the same for you. Not a good foundation for a relationship.
Yea, chances are OP your husband hates your Dad because your Dad sees him for the abuser he is. Dad knows he has no business being with you. Your husband is actively trying to isolate you from your family so he can control you.
Lol what a weird rule
I totally agree. She went straight to a fetish site to show him diaper fetish things, seems she knows her way around the fetish sites. Even I would have a hot time knowing what to look for, but some one like her who seems very familiar with it would easily access it. Sorry others tried to turn your point into SA survivors getting nasty.
You gotta be more splicit
She deserves better than you and your inability to be loyal.
Of course they should break up
They have gone thru so much together and she just threw it away for some dick
This relationship is now damaged beyond repair
I will respond
Yes thank you, 1. I agree
2.i definitely can not offord it, he lives in a 1 bedroom 1 bath apartment. They are asking $1,400 for a 12 year new lease. I still have my car payments, my health insurance, phone plan, etc. etc.
Do I want to live! with him right now? No, Do I want to on-line with him down the road? Yes, his current apartment is only fit for 1 person, not 2. He does have a full grown Sheppard that sleeps in a huge kennel (takes up alot of space) he never keeps food in his apartment, due to him working alot and never home. If I were to bring all my clothes/furniture/essentials, there would be no where to put any of my stuff. I've had a conversation with him about finding a apartment that is a bit bigger for his needs also, because he does have his family over alot and its super cramped, but ofc he can't offord anything else but where he is at now.
This is the first time I've heard him Brought up this altimatum. The first year we started dating the only serious conversation was that he wanted me to stay over more, and I did.
No I agree. That’s why I didn’t see it as a red flag at first. It was when he started excessively talking about his exes, then telling me he takes their phone calls on a daily basis. He says they use him as their emotional support when they feel suicidal. Then he randomly shows less interest in me.
the last time I saw a post like this the woman asked the babysitter why she was fired and it turned out she quit because the husband made a move on her
Definitely a 22 yo move. 40 year old you would slap you for sending this…
Seems like an addiction in my eyes. If he really can't stop then it is an issue.
You are put on the side because he needs his rush. He is gonna need help with it and he has to admit what it truly is.
They got married 3 years ago.
22 – 3 = 19
26 – 3 = 23
They started dating 5 years ago.
23 – 5 = 17
26 – 5 = 21
Hope that helps.
She sounds dramatic and immature. Either try and smooth it out by communicating, or let her know she’s just not for you.
It's NRE
No one's reading past “cheating on me”. This is a lost cause relationship.
“you gave up”
After she says no….
This screams immature.
Yup. I had a friend who's mother did this when she was 13. just left and didn't come back for a year. And everyone was just supposed to move on. And part of the arrangement of them reconnecting was the parents go on vacations all the time together without their children. They leave the kids at home and never take them on any vacation ever.
Every time she talked about it I could see the pain there. Fuck those people.
Quick question: are her friends she going on this trip with single?
Boys who are not real men do this. He's doing it too wear you down and make you unsure of yourself so he can mess with your head more and more until you think you're worthless and he's the only good thing in your life. Don't stay with him. He's going to destroy you
Don’t let her guilt you into doing something you aren’t comfortable with. His dad isn’t comfortable with it either but she’s obviously the type to throw a fit if she isn’t getting her way. He seems to know all to well and now you will too.
It’s disrespectful of her to ask this because his dad is very much a part of his life. Her saying you just don’t want to accept her son as part of the family is just a tactic she’s trying to use to get you to agree. She likes the drama and is relentless apparently until all parties give her what she wants.
She sounds exhausting. Hold your ground. Even if you did want to, it’s just disrespectful to his active father. She’d definitely throw a fit if her son’s father made demands on behalf of his new wife. Maybe, just maybe, rethink if this is the woman you want to marry.
She said yes
Why would you be talking to your ex for so long if you're happy with your current? How would you not know this would be an issue. Reverse roles. You're at work and his ex is hitting him up, and he's happy to chat. You're happy? Come on now.
If you’re gonna cheat you’re gonna cheat. Plenty of us talk to exes and haven’t cheated?
Then of course this is fine / not problematic.
You both sound like you need to emotionally mature before getting into a relationship. Separate and work on yourself.
I sure bet OP’s “friend” has seen this…
I don’t want anything with him.. I don’t know him that well. I told him I originally did but then he moved and I told him it wasn’t realistic obviously. I made that real clear.
I offered him friends but he didn’t seem interested. And it’s been platonic because I said so to him. I felt like he was stringing me along so I told him I was done and then he came back with this response.
So how should I go about it?
Honestly, part of me wonders if there’s more to it. Like he’s depressed about other things.
I am ahahha and have been for many years
I’ve heard they come back is that true? I’m not going to wait but just curious
Yoooooo the audacity of this guy and his replies… wtf I am shocked. YTA dude.
Honey. I did this when I was 17-23. Dated the same man for six years, and only when I left FOR REAL, he offered to “actually” tell everyone. I went to his soccer games, stayed in his house secretly, wasn’t allowed to post photos with or of him (let alone take pictures WITH him), and joined his family for holidays as his sister’s friend (who didn’t even know). I look back and literally cannot believe I put up with that. My self esteem was low. My trust for him was high. My need for love was extremely high. But my respect for myself was non existent. Love yourself first. Put yourself first. You deserve someone that jumps around to show you off and hype you up.
For what it’s worth, he had a serious girlfriend during our “relationship” that I didn’t know about. He was 7 years older than me so it was easy to hide from me as we did not have the same friends and he blocked me on all social media. He’s now 35, never been in another serious relationship, lives with his divorced 33 year old brother, and just got his first real job a few years ago. I did better. And so can you.
You know this is not acceptable in committed relationship so call him out and hear what he has to say so you can take your next decision of ending things with him over this. He is doing everything possible to get into her pants and with time he will be able to have sex with her so no need to wait for that to happen rather break up. It does not matter how you found this out as you had your suspicious and that proved right so all you need to do is prepare yourself to confront him. You can ask him to read this post of yours and comments that this post gest so he can understand how you did not do anything wrong and who he is the one who ruined relationship of years with you.
Ask yourself, sincerely and honestly, if he would be half as understanding and supportive if your roles were reversed.
EXCELLENT point.
Is this sacarsm
If it's impossible for the two of you to discuss relationship issues, then a relationship will be impossible to sustain. Let him play video games with his friends for 8 hours a day while you find someone who actually wants to be with you.
YTA. Break up with him. You don’t deserve to have a partner if you can’t focus your attention on him. Don’t just hop around use this time to yourself to focus on you. Hooking up with randoms will not fulfil you and honestly make you less attractive to men.
Came here to look for comments from people with ADHD, coz this looked like a BS excuse from a lazy and selfish bf. OP, find you a better man
Yeah but she says he later complains of being over-full. This isn't hunger. It's habit and some kind of compulsion.
ExBoyfriend, ex. Hsv can be managed. Be kinder to yourself. He doesn't deserve you, and you deserve better.
Are u stupid?
„Everyone has a basic human right to believe whatever they wish“
That doesn‘t mean we have to tolerate it or do you support Nazis that killed millions of Jewish people by dehumanizing them??
Ffs this is about human rights. You got it. Trans people deserve to live!, too. Trans people deserve to be safe, too.
I cannot believe how y‘all lack empathy fr. You don‘t have to understand or engage with trans people but the least thing you can do is tolerate them and distance yourself from people who feel like they have the right to dehumanize other people.
Dude i had an ex that constantly threatened suicide. It's abusive manipulation. You are not his keeper and i cannot imagine the toll it takes on your own mental health.
This is not a good man for you. This man wants to sleep around while having u wait on him and pay his way.
How is this relationship good in any sense to your self worth or making you feel valued as a partner?
It isn't right? Please get away. Call the suicide hotline or the police next time he does threaten but u cannot be held hostage in an emotionally abusive relationship that is making you so miserable. How long would u want to even do this?
No man would ever magically just need to fuck other women to feel better about himself. He can do that being single!!!!!
I just want to say .. if you do end up needing or wanting a divorce, that’s ok❤️ Better to be divorced twice than unhappy forever
There is, unfortunately very little that one can do to fix someone else’s horrible parenting that falls short of abuse. I’d just try to be there for the kids as they grow up so they can get some idea of what a stable home environment looks like.
Leave him. If you can't kick him out quite yet, do everything so that you can do it, or move out etc, however long it may last.
Do not stay in relationship with him, and do not act like you are with him anymore.
If he tries to reconcile, tell him you can consider, only once he quits this job. If he argues tell him, it is his choice, whether he wants to he with you or not, and he made such demand necessary.
If your father would hold a secret 11 yr old you kept out of fear and manipulation by an adult you relied on – he isn't a decent person either.
Think about what it is you're trying to accomplish because their relationship isn't your responsibility or in your authority. If it were me, I'd distance myself at least until I'd gotten some therapy to sort this out for myself.
Yeah, this is gtfo territory either way. This family is nuts.