You are not nuts, Slow-Republic. His behaviour smells deeply suspicious. My approach would be to talk to the friend and tell him that your hubby has thrown him under the bus as an excuse for not being able to keep his own dick in his pants, and ask the friend which he would prefer – telling you what happened, or that you talk to friend's wife about the allegation of cheating by her husband.
Yep. Was with someone like her for years and nothing I did was ever right. Good riddance. Hope she’s okay but don’t need to know.
Maybe have her paint you cards and write a heartfelt note in there? That way if you’d like you can save them in a photo album or something.
You are not nuts, Slow-Republic. His behaviour smells deeply suspicious. My approach would be to talk to the friend and tell him that your hubby has thrown him under the bus as an excuse for not being able to keep his own dick in his pants, and ask the friend which he would prefer – telling you what happened, or that you talk to friend's wife about the allegation of cheating by her husband.