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I mean being you have already spoken to your girlfriend about this and nothing has really changed I would say maybe try discussing an open relationship or try again talking about your needs one more time. I know the feeling of not having my partner having the same sex drive as me it's terrible. No matter how much you love the person it does become a issue. I think you just need to address it explain things need to change. Be firm don't make it seem like it's an option it's a must and a need. Trust me it will eventually turn into you going somewhere else to have your needs satisfied. Good luck I hope it works out for you.
What post did you read?
What is he your boyfriend or husband.. plus, how can you date for four years? ?
She knew exactly what she was doing. And yea they all seem sweet don’t they. She’s up to no good watch them both
Let’s invite Jackie over so we can talk. An exclusive female “friend”, your husband doesn’t want to introduce you to is a problem. The whole dynamics of When Harry Met Sally was all about that. A healthy platonic friendship doesn’t hide it from his wife. If he’s not cheating, he’s venting to her. Sone you know someone who knows Jackie, invite both of them for dinner, to surprise your husband. It may upset him. So is his gaslighting on you
You know what?
If you don't see the obvious betrayal you have accomplished on yourself,
nothing I haved to say has any worth.
My advise would be to stay out of it. You're the only likely to get punched out since that's what men do. They blame the other guy, not the girlfriend who did the cheating. Trust me he will find out what she is up to. She will get careless and he will catch her.
Is this something that you think can be healed?
How many of these incidents are you going to look past before walking away?
Honestly people like OP deserves to be laughed at. They sound like an insufferable child who can't take responsibility for their actions.
That's very sweet of you and while it may be odd to many, it is still acceptable. Do what your heart feels is right. My ex and I are still good friends and we have boundaries that work well. Why not do something to make someone else smile? If it doesn't hurt you and he understands the relationship is over, I don't see the harm
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You where asked to respect one thing. My advice is respect it. When the child is older she can make her own decisions but I think you could open a giant can of stinky worms if you probe.
HAHAHAHAHAHA but he’s never done anything conniving or manipulative? And other guys prey on young women but not your boyfriend?
Girl. No.
Lol old enough to know she’s in the wrong
Thanks for commenting, I didn’t know about the infection side of it so I’m definitely bringing this up with her. Very worried about that
I'd much rather be in a relationship on my own merit than “just” being a placeholder that reminds my partner of their previous partner. I think you need to give your gf some credit and just gently have a conversation about your worries. I bet you she'll surprise you.
She's young and seeing you is “everything” to her. If she was older and more secure, it'd be a no brainier. She would understand and say “go be with your buddies” since she could put you before her “feelings.” It's been said “you train others by what you allow them to do.” So, if you can handle “devastating” her, go be with your buddies. She will eventually get over it but you may suffer for it and for awhile. If you would rather avoid that nonsense, be disappointed and disappoint your friends by making her happy and go on see her. You may resent her though.
You lose either way. It's a matter of picking the lesser of two evils. Talk to her about it again and decide. Good luck.
Are you his mother!? Because he's acting like a child.
If you really like him, then I think you should pursue the relationship. But talk to him about it first, make sure he’s in the right headspace for a relationship before you jump into things.
Imagine you told your family the shape/size of her vagina lips, then your little brother slips it during dinner, and you go upstairs leaving her alone with your family. Would she come and comfort you? I don't think so.
You aren't acknowledging that you cheated on her! Cheating spouses spend years of penance reassuring their partners that they aren't cheating.
What you want is a relaxed and happy wife who will turn a blind eye to your cheating. But you spend your life pulling away and making her panic. You're the toxic one here.
Probably both…
YTA Can you possibly even be more unprofessional and skeevy?
She said he was an atheist and wanted to eat meat on the day because 'a meal isn't a meal without meat'.
He's agreed to the religious wedding and is then wilfully sabotaging it by adding stuff that goes against that religion
THIS. There ain't nothing more to say! This man showed OP exactly who he was and what sort of parent and partner he'd be.
What did she say when you asked her about it?
Why sex worker? I know some, and I’d trust them more than many other women. That doesn’t fit with the others and is a weird projection. Maybe it’s scarier to think that people you run into everyday do this shit too (and probably more often).
No. Do not apologize. Tell her that since you're just friends in her eyes she has no right to tell you who you can dance with.
You cant have it both ways. Either you would never accept cheating, or you think that actually sometimes its understandable, but you cant have both.
Right now, you are justifying why actually, it wasnt that bad in this case, which shows your wife that you can actually justify cheating. The reason it wasnt that bad in your head, and honestly kinda ok, was that he didnt give her enough sex and wasnt emotionally present. Those are fine and dandy reasons to ask for counseling or divorce, they are shitty reasons to cheat.
You're more or less telling your wife that you dont mind keeping the company of not only a cheater, but someone you discuss at least her sex life with, and then on top you dont think what she did was that bad. That would weird me out too, to be honest.
The problem is the lie. I would have kept losing weight and probably been at my goal by now but at some point I felt comfortable and nude enough to take it easy. He told me day in day out he didn't want me to lose anymore weight.
Guess it is a me problem.
If he has been living with you for the last 9 months how long have you been in this relationship. You must have known each other before that. People don’t just move in together after the first date.
I mean, most people wouldn’t get to the “dumping a partner because they don’t like oral” stage because they would not continue to date them as soon as they discovered this serious incompatibility.
I was in your exact shoes 2 years ago. His friend always trying to drive a wedge in there and make digs at me. The final straw for me was when we invited his shitty friend over for a bonfire, and he drunkingly went around the neighborhood and knocked over all our neighbors trash cans on the street. I was mortified. Called him out and said wtf, he played the “it’s a joke chill” card. My boyfriend at the time STILL made excuses, also saying he had a rough upbringing (dad committed suicide when they were in 7th grade together), they’re childhood friends, etc etc. It always bothered me how he had zero backbone with his disrespectful shitty friend. I tried getting him to understand trauma doesn’t excuse you being a bad person. We ended up breaking up.
I don’t think it’s that black and white at all. He’s already been committed and his behavior hasn’t changed at all since bringing up this stuff, this isn’t about commitment in my eyes at all. This is about him being afraid that he won’t be able to get his life in order and sustain a healthy relationship at the same time, and being afraid of “hurting me” by becoming busier with work.
Bc we're trying to work on our relationship (his preference and I also want to since he seemed sincere) and it was something that I said sounded good for us to do together since it would be a shared fun experience and help us get closer and he agreed at the time.
I don’t understand in which way I would catfish someone. I’m in a relationship after all. The reason why I would like private advice is because the last time I posted something here, my boyfriend saw my post. I’m afraid he’ll see it. But I’m sorry if it seems like my intentions are wrong, I didn’t know.
I have thin nose lining and am severely anemic with supplements, I dealt with this growing up and it was bad. I had a coke problem after high school and it really messed up my nose. Now I get VERY frequent nosebleeds and even when it’s not bleeding, there’s blood when I blow it. It wouldn’t surprise me if it was from nosebleeds, but it would Really really surprise me if there wasn’t something else going on. It’s gross but I have def seen my blood in weird places around my house that I didn’t realize and have to clean it. I can’t imagine a scenario where I’m not the one cleaning it or that I’m this defensive about my partner being worried about literal blood being found frequently.
It’s not about the blood, it’s about his reaction to it. I think you should make him clean it, if it is his nose blood there’s no reason you should be cleaning it unless you don’t trust your husband to do basic 12 year old cleaning chores.
Coming in after the update that husband and fran are having an affair…
First off, that sucks astronomically. Be strong for yourself and your kid, OP. I hope you have a good support network you can fall back on.
R/survivinginfidellity (hope I spelled that right, on my phone typing this) is a sub-editor dedicated to what you're going through. Might want to check there too.
I'd suggest getting a full work std test done as quickly as possible. Including bloodwork. You never know what “gifts” these two passed on to you.
I'd also figure out what my exit strategy is. Only you can decide if you want to try and save your marriage. But it takes two people to make a marriage work.
Only you know your husband well enough to figure out if he's actually remorseful or if this is just the one where he got caught.
I'm firmly in camp “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” But Reddit is pretty black and white. The real world is all kinds of shades of grey.
I would suggest talking to a divorce lawyer, though. Just to have options. And see about locking down your credit, any shared finances etc. Don't let husband screw you over financially, too.
You got offended by your wife sharing information with you.
Have a teaspoon of cement and harden up.
Nah, we wouldn't want your kind anywhere near us. Try Antarctica? ✌️
There really isn't any need for 'proof'. She saw it. She knows it happened. Now it's time for her to decide her way forward. It's really never going to matter to anyone if she has the screenshot or whatever.
I mean he does because she’s not asking if he’s a jerk she’s asking if he’s a rapist. To that I say it’s possible it’s on purpose but also more likely that it’s not.
He gained no satisfaction out of her tipping over in pain and ending sex immediately. This would be a stupid thing to do. So unless he has an IQ of 10 I doubt it was on purpose. An incredibly selfish person (which I believe he is) knows this.
Pretend you’re single.
Now imagine you meet a gal who rides a Harley, likes to go to the drag strip, doesn’t really do boxing events, but doesn’t mind them, loves dogs and grew up around horses.
If you don’t want to go find a lady like this, that’s up to you, but there’s a good chance she’s out there.
doubt
Is it really lying? Can you tell me exactly when in the relationship should she have said something? The first date? When she may be unsure if the man’s attitude towards pornstars is violent? When they move in together? When he’s on one knee during the proposal? It’s not really a lie if you fully intend to tell someone but tomorrow always seems like a better time. The days go by faster and faster.
Also it’s weird to conflate this with robbing a bank. In one situation, you’ve been ‘caught’ and are legally under oath to tell the truth. But I doubt most people would admit to a crime if they’re in, like, a job interview or on a first date.
No, I think perhaps having a better understanding of why she rejects these men’s advances the way she does, may give you some insight. Woman have been stalked, insulted, assaulted and even murdered in some cases, for rejecting a man’s advances. Sometimes a gentle no is the safest thing for her.
Not sure why people take “breaks” or how that would even work, but if you weren't together at the time, why are you angry? Is it that she slept with someone or that she didn't immediately get tested and inform you of the risk?
Lmao 5, 6, 7
In other words she's not completely fulfilled in your relationship and is looking elsewhere. I'd be done.