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Date: November 24, 2022
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Ditch her, If she wants to run off and act single let her
You need to get a lawyer immediately. If she chooses to accuse you of rape, and files a report then your life is ruined.
Lawyer up, explain your side of events, and let him go from there.
“I'm uncomfortable there are people downstairs” was the only thing she said to you? Did she continue to give excuses or say no, or any other indication she didn't want to have sex?
Did you force yourself on her, coerce her into it?
All questions that need to be asked by a lawyer, she has to prove beyond a shadow of doubt that you did it, otherwise it is her word against yours.
My son went through something similar not to long ago, the girl who accused him, lied about timelines and everything.
He never had sex with her, as he was a teenager and she a child and she was my former bff daughter. As a rape victim myself I knew the signs to look for, but not only that she was NEVER alone with him. EVER. Plus we lived out of state at the time she claims it happened. But he had to go through the whole process, and prove his side of the story.
But the one good advice I can give is lawyer up. Because these accusations can ruin your life if you are innocent
It is her body. You have no rights over it. And it is her form of expression, her art. Again, you have no right. Maybe go to a therapist and unpack why you feel the need to control your partner. Because this is 100% not up to you.
people do this?
Conversations and making sure each other are ok, having fun is a thing freinds do. Perhaps you should change the conversation if it dosent suit you? Or maybe it's just a hookup to you, but he thinks your freinds? Idk, in my experience this is very normal
I suppose they don't want to leave their partners until they know they have someone else to turn to. This of course unfair to their current partners.
You can just tell them you feel uncomfortable getting so close to girl in relationship. Tell them you can remain “friendly” with them, but for anything more you need the other person to be single. You simply have no interest in being part of an affair. If anything for any reasonable girl it should be great news you are this kind of person.
I would not fucking be okay with that.
Like yeah, your friend sucks. Everyone is harping on her but if she took a screenshot it likely has been in the cloud for years. My shit goes back to 2009, maybe earlier.
That is absolutely something I'd screenshot. Especially if I didn't know how I was going to handle the situation. Having proof covers her ass in case he tries to spin some shit on her.
She's shit for not telling you and then telling you in such an explosive way, but she likely didn't maliciously keep the photo in order to destroy your life like everyone seems to think.
HOWEVER
The real fucking problem is your husband. If you had been made aware of that text when he sent it would you have married him the next day?
I'd be rip shit pissed, disgusted, and feel utterly betrayed if my SO did this right before marrying me. Nobody was twisting his fucking arm. He didn't have to marry you.
He pulled that shit and kept it from you because you might not have said “I do” had you known. As far as I'm concerned a marriage born of deceit is no marriage at all. You were getting married and he literally betrayed you before walking down the isle! What the actual fuck.
If you would have gone through with the marriage I don't know what to say. Couples counseling?
I personally wouldn't get married the day after my SO sends a message like that. I know some advice column bullshit like starting over and dating your husband again to form a new relationship with him is likely what the relationship industry would recommend…
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But fuck that guy. Fuck him for lying about his feelings. Fuck him for carrying on a relationship, getting all the way to the alter, and STILL trying to get with your friend. Fuck him for keeping it a secret. Fuck him for standing with you in front of your friends and family pretending you're his person when he's only there because the woman he really wanted wouldn't have him.
Fuck everything about that. Fuck him, fuck her, fuck the marriage, fuck the family. Fuck everything except the kids.
You deserve to be someone's first choice. He is preventing you from finding that person because hun, he ain't it.
I don't gaf if he thinks he's changed or whatever. Some things are too much. For me, this would cross that line.
From your reactions to him it sounds like you agree. You should probably stop trying to convince yourself otherwise.
Idk girl I’ve been with my partner for 13 years. It will end when one of us dies (and, even still, not quite). EVERY relationship ends. Friendships can be less messy, but not always.
It depends what kind of life you want to live— would you be happy never falling in love again? I think if you don’t do things things that are important to you because you are scared, your life will be full of regrets and resentment as you get older. That’s not to just do every cockamamie idea that pops into your head, but important things. Life is scary sometimes. Love is scary sometimes. They are both also very beautiful.
Idk what you should do about this girl you have a crush on, but I hope you have a life full of love and wonder, whatever that looks like to you.
Thanks very much. Lots of life experience.
Not girlfriend, wife. Clearly she shouldn't go but this isn't exactly divorce worthy.
Right? Precum can have many swimmers in it, I'd insist on condoms if I were so OCD about getting pregnant.
Well, she didn’t actually even say she wanted him dead though either did she?!
As black people, we don't play with certain demographics. You know why.
So literally none of these fuckers who call themself your “family” took a moment to consider your medical school graduation? The one thing that literally every parent in my community will never shut up about their child doing, and your asshole family doesn’t even care?
Honey. Honey honey honey. This is a wonderful moment to learn how to treat others how they treat you. Value yourself in this moment. You owe it to your years of hot work and sacrifice. You fucking earned this. All your brother did was stuck his dick in it (unless it was arranged then all he did was sit there and twiddle his thumbs). Regardless, neither are nearly as important as this and the fact that everyone disregarded you should tell you how much they care
“Ah mate, I fucked up, x and I had a cheeky line outside and she caught me. Can you say I have allergies so she drops it? Otherwise she’s gonna make it a nightmare for everyone”
I think dude is being unprofessional by bringing his personal grudges to work. And if I were you I’d start looking for other jobs.
he started telling other people what an asshole I am
Do you know what he said? ‘I tried to get her to hang out but she declined’ would absolutely make him sound like the asshole and wouldn’t really get you fired. So either there’s more details about how you did it and what you said while turning him down, or he might be making things up so he would look like the victim. If you’re afraid of being fired, I would talk to your manager about this and show them the texts if you need to. If this manager decides to pick sides or is his friend, then definitely look for another job.
Double social science degree here that got my first job in STEM making $19/hr fifteen years ago. To this day, I still outcompete crappy CS majors for jobs in my field. Solid writing, communication, and critical thinking skills are highly sought after in tech. Being a code monkey is not enough anymore. Your girlfriend is smarter than you think, and she’ll be re-evaluating your behavior and your relationship once she starts making bank as a technical writer.
Divorce him.
The smell isn't the issue. She can almost never smell it if I did do it and I smoked in the balcony. The house, smell, everything etc was all fine.
Cool. So at best he thinks “mental illness is wrong” and he belittles by mocking it. So he's stupid, wrong, and mean.
What would it take for you to break up with him?
I can see why someone would not want to have heavy conversations on someone else's timetable – for instance, if they are trying to concentrate on a problem, or get ready for bed? So I think it's okay to let him postpone it, but he also has to give you a specific time that he's willing to discuss it.
It sounds to me like he hopes you'll just forget about it. Don't let that happen.
Or maybe, this isn't the relationship for you. But I definitely don't see anything “gaslighty” about your behavior.
I'm a SAHM. If you don't think we lose social status, you are out of your mind.
Your a adult, it’s not like you’re saying you got rejected from a marriage, just casually mention it, and move on, people don’t care
My (35F) best friend is a guy. He is gay.
But being friends with a straight guy? Yeah nope.
In this case, I would think so as well
One thing is to make “jokes”, another to compare you to her sister’s boyfriend’s. Explicitly ask her to stop using that as a subject and to poke around other issues because you feel it’s not a joke for her and therefore not for you.
Guy sounds like trouble. He’s either scary-weird or he’s trying to gaslight you into sleeping with him. You don’t need his or other people’s approval. As soon as you start getting strange behavior/vibes from someone, do yourself a favor and leave. Follow your gut. If it doesn’t make sense, you are likely being manipulated. Nothing is more important than having confidence in your own ability to assess situations and the appropriateness of your own behavior.