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Date: October 19, 2022
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I’m so very sorry for your profound losses. I know that absolutely nothing can make the loss of your children any less huge or distressing. I just wanted to tell you about my dad’s best friend who lost both of his children in quick succession. Both accidents, within two years. He was already divorced before his children died and re-married. He was really broken and in deep grief for about 5 years or so. He and his wife ultimately picked up stakes, sold their house and bought a tiny farm in a different state. I think that taking care of a couple of horses & other animals helped him heal a lot. They then sold the farm after about a decade and now life a happy life (although tempered with this great loss he is now ok again).
I hope you are able to not give up on each other somehow, you’ve been through a lot of trauma. If the help you are getting isn’t helping enough keep searching. Some things can’t be gotten through alone.
It sounds like from your comments none of this has to do with finding out about the kids, but his current contact with the stripper ex’s he is reaching out to.
You need to directly tell him you are feeling insecure, and need him to communicate through words & action that he is committed to you. The fact he admitted to flirting with them…. Wtf? Set boundaries. Ask him who all he is texting, maybe even ask to see the messages since he admitted to flirting,
It’s probably just a silly bit she does with her friends honestly. One Plan b pill is 50 bucks for no reason so that might be why theyre using it to decorate (get some funny purpose out of it)
Nor everyone has shit to hide. My wife and don't, and have had password. We use each others phones interchangeably. Only people you have things to hide from their SO, are worried about “phone invasion”.
To qualify, if it a work phone or has sensitive information on, I would understand. But a work phone should not be used for personal stuff. God knows who has access to that phone.
My only question is, what are you doing there? She's not your girlfriend. You're simply one of the people keeping her bed warm. You deserve better, there are plenty of women out there that will appreciate you for who you are. Give yourself the best Christmas gift, your freedom and self respect.
Are you looking for a relationship by offering this ?
I totally wrote that wrong wow. 3am here lol
So you were both in agreement with your views up until recently.
If you actually sit down and talk through what you actually feel and why, you will most likely find that most people are moderate. To be extreme right or extreme left is to be impractical to the point of dumbness, where nothing can make sense anymore.
Try couples therapy, it is likely that your views are still not really that far out from each other. Things are getting crazy and you've both fallen into it a bit. Maybe avoid the political stuff for a while.
I mean it call comes done to, all of them are assholes?
If either of you are feeling like you need to send bills to each other, there’s something wrong in your relationship.
Toxic breeds toxic, but I can say this relationship is not doing you any good. Don't be with a guy just so you can say you're with a guy. Break up. Also, you don't need his OK on a breakup. They are usually unilateral.
the androgynous angel clued me in. that’s exactly what i expect from a yoga teacher, like what kind of word combo is this?
Yeah alchemy? Lol freak.
My advice would be to show her this post if you feel comfortable. Like tell your story. You’re being vulnerable without showing her your body. But know that you are clearly smart, kind, loving, compassionate and some woman will be honored to love all of you when you’re ready. Your parents’ actions were abusive and ugly; YOU are not ugly.
Nope. This is creepy. Trust your gut. Dump him.
OP, you are being willfully ignorant. He didn’t just let you think he was an asshole, he IS an asshole and he showed you that. When people show you who they are you need to believe them and this man could not have been more clear with you. Do not allow him back into your life.
Ask him if you can record him. People often don't get how bad their snoring gets
Tell them you wanna break up then stop talking to them. Easier said than done but that's the only method.
Also remember that you only have a baby for one year. Then you have a toddler, a child, a teen and then an adult. If your heart isn’t in it to raise and guide a whole life, you should listen.
For such a new relationship I agree with you: her asking you to sell your house is a big ask, and if you don’t want to be a landlord you shouldn’t be forced to. Good luck.
It's beyond confusing.
For a very long time, he said he wasn't sure about me as a partner and that my background wasn't good enough for his family.
So I started investing into my friendships, and now I'm busy and happy with a full social schedule.
Now he plans all of our outings, classes, etc, and he wants me to be home and cooking for him.
Now I'm starting to wonder if what he's been telling me over the last year has just been to break my self esteem. He made it seem like i had to “earn,” his families approval.
Anyway.
Sorry for the rant. Had to process a bit
If you see a future, tell him. You should tell him anyway, but especially if you want to stay with him. Better from you now than from a drunk friend 10 years from now.
You are not as good as lier as you think you are. If there is a single moment of weakness between you or your friends for the foreseeable future, he’s going to find out.
Even if you break up, it’s better now than later. Worse- if you wait until you two are really committed and he finds out, you might end up agreeing to a one sided open relationship just to keep him. How does crying yourself to sleep while he sleeps with other women sound?
Regardless, learn from this mistake and don’t do it next time.
Yes, he might break up with you for it, but if he decides that, then that is kind of what you deserve.
I only needed to read the title to know your husband is an AH. 1. He is dating someone significantly younger because the younger the more inexperienced and easier to manipulate. 2. Just because he is your husband does not mean he is entitled to your body! He has no right or reason to get mad that you were tired and fell asleep before he could get any! Sleep away! ??
The thing is, 23/18 is in a gray area. I think 25/20 is a fairly normal age gap. (And 30/25 is no big deal.) But 21/16 is unacceptable. It’s a sliding scale of creepiness, or grading the creep factor on a curve.
Some 18 year olds have been working for years, and have lots of experience dealing with older people as peers. Some 18 year olds have been completely sheltered by their parents, and have no idea how to interact with the world as an individual. Most, of course, fall somewhere in between.
How can you be this immature at 24?
Your father is trying to step up and be a father to a child that is legitimately his. He is doing the right thing. Your mother is absolutely in the wrong for demanding him to be a deadbeat parent in the first place.
You should try being honest. Being dishonest isn't getting you where you need to be.
Stop. Do not pass go. Do not lend him the money. You will never, ever see it back, and the ramifications of not having having that money will last for at least a decade or more.
It doesn't matter that you promised. You do not owe him. It is a terrible decision and you are allowed to change your mind. Use that money to move out and start a new life.
The behavior you describe that he is engaging on with this other woman is emotional cheating. That is still cheating and you have every right to refuse to put up with such behavior.
Let me repeat:
Do not lend him the money. Tear up the paperwork. Walk away.
So would she try to set her own bone if it was broken?
Are you from a religious community (marrying young and not knowing each other very well + anti masterbating kind of sounds like it)? Take her to the priests. Consult the elders. Ask the older women.
I grew up ins country where women walked with 5 kids for miles to get their kids vaccinated. To give birth in a hospital. I absolutely cannot stand stupid people eschewing modern medicine. I hope it doesn’t cost you a wife or a baby – as it has with many other people who decide that modern medicine is the devil.
Ppd is a SERIOUS disease. It’s not a cold. It’s not going to go away on its own. She may or may not have it. But, depression will kill your libido as much as baby so maybe you will be incentivised by that to try to get her to address this. I do not understand why you would willingly have a child with someone who thinks modern medicine is bad. God forbid the child needs an epi-pen, insulin, surgeries or even asthma.
Perfectly said ☝
Do yourself a large favour and dump this loser.
Please get tested for STDs
I didn’t even see the age difference. That’s significant. And the fact that you’re saying no and she’s ignoring you? That’s definitely rapey. I’m sorry that happened. Personally I would ghost her as long as you don’t run into her in real life. If you do I would just say you’re not interested anymore and only mention that she made you uncomfortable last time if she asked. Idk if you are interested/comfortable/allowed to file a police report but you should consider looking into it.
As a person who has very many sensory issues, is oblivious to social cues and can't tell a lie to save my life (ADHD, not ASD):
Have you verbally communicated the content of your post to her? Verbally. With plain language. Not innuendos or hints or read between the lines. Just plain “hey, this bothers me for x reason” or “this thing you do hurts me”. She might be an asshat, but she might also honestly be unaware that her behaviour affects you in that way.
I'm in my mid forties, and I still really struggle to tell why someone may be upset. With my close people I can SEE they are upset, with other people I have zero clues. But even so, I do not know why they are upset, unless they explicitly tell me, which – let me assure you – is emotional torment, because I don't even know if it's something I did, or something that just happened, or something that someone else did.
There is no specific time frame for moving on, everyone is different. If you want to see who else is out there, go for it. His feelings aren't your responsibility to manage after you've broken up.
Well, you didn't exactly put a question there, just stated something that happened and some minimum backstory details.
If you're not a troll, then you may want to re-word your post to fit this sub's guidelines.
You’ve been engaged for 4 years, are pregnant with his third child. And you are not married? Did I understand that correctly?
You have been together for a year… You are barely ready to online together let alone get married. I personally think the best way to go about it is to date a couple of years and then you would also need to online together for a few to see if you can cohabitate.
Marriage is a serious life commitment and it's not something that should be taken lightly imo.
No contact is a must. Do that part for yourself, not him.
Have you had an anxiety attacks before ? If so, could be creeping up… if no, sounds like you are anxious about something
I know it feels nice to have your boyfriend talk you to sleep which is cute every once in awhile but as a routine thing is not sustainable and unfair to the other party. Also as an adult you should not be needing someone to talk you to sleep and should seek help so that you can be a step closer to independence. Codependency doesn't work long term it's best to be self sufficient and finding a partner who is equally self-sufficient and when combined you both enhance each other.
That’s the setup in a few religions. They get you with the supposed atheism and once you’re hooked, all of a sudden they’re zealots. I’ve had this done by a Muslim, Christian and Hebrew Israelite.
He was never an atheist. But if it meant getting you, he’d pretend. And sure you might say that he could have chosen a Jewish woman but see thats not gonna satisfy one major need. The need to conquer and bend someone or something to his will. Men know they cna get a broken & trained horse anywhere. But oh the glory in breaking that wild & free Mustang.
Get out now while you have your identity and just you to worry about.
You should post this on r/legaladvice. I would ? talk to a lawyer before you make any changes to the deed. There are other options besides adding her as a co-owner of the house (which is what adding her to the deed would do).
If she’s worried about being kicked out of you break up, then you should have a lease in place where she is your tenant and protected by the same tenants’ rights she’d be entitled to in any other rental property. Your nightmare would be breaking up, she’s on the deed, and now you’re in court over who owns the property and in what proportion.
how many times you gonna spam this?
Obviously she has issues to deal with about this wedding. She doesn’t have to bring you as a plus one. Just because you are dating doesn’t mean you automatically get to go to family functions. Unless you got a invite personally from the couple, then you are not invited. Regardless of what the text said, she doesn’t want to bring you to a wedding where she has naked feelings towards her brother. You should respect her need to deal with this alone.
We're the same age but I agree with you that she looks like not invested in the relationship
I appreciate your candor and am open to growth. I do realize I was wrong but can you try to be more specific in your criticism?
I will. I guess I never considered this kind of thing as abusive but more of as a nuisance. I do have a lot to think about.
Doesn’t mean he sent them on accident. He could have sent a message asking if it was about him hitting on her, then deleted it after a second or two. There’s no telling
OP,
The trauma that you going through losing such a close family member is really tough and I get it. I lost my father also, it was very naked.
What your doing it taking the trauma of your loss and projecting it on your GF. Your grieving, it's so nude. Trust me, I understand, you wish she would have been there. She, by your words had a prior commitment. Do you know if it could of been postponed? Most of the time when a family member is visiting from out of state is because it was planned for other family members to take that time off and be together. That means a lot of planning took place for it to be that certain period of time.
I am not invalidating your point at all, I am just trying to get you to understand other perspective of the situation.
I believe you need to see a grief councilor and talk it out. I know when I was your age, I thought it was either this way or that way. The thing I learned later was that everything has to be give and take. Even when times are tough. I also learned that I had to stop being so harsh and think around everything, see it from both sides and just not my side. Its hot to do, but once you start trying it gets easier.
I am sorry you feel this way, you need to do what you need to do. Just understand if this is your only issue with her and you break up with her, Will you find someone that is as good as her? Are you willing to give up on somebody because either way they chose, was going to hurt someone else?
What is there to wait out? Do you want to get pregnant? If so, it's fine, but he sounds fairly rapey. If not, get plan B while waiting it out.
…per advice from a different comment.
So you honed in on that one and ignored everyone else telling you to walk away and move on…?? You take care, I truly wish you the best.
If you were my sister or friend, I would tell you to leave. I don't see this ending well. I'm sorry that your husband is doing this. If you're wanting to preserve your marriage – would he be willing to try couples counseling (not from a religious leader)?
All of this!
How is there even a relationship/ considering to move in with her, if he hadn't ever been i her apartment?
She sounds like a leech.
Try again, sober, in the day time.
It definitely sounds like something that warrants more conversation. Your own “inner voice” is after all the most stable thing you have to go on regardless of the circumstances.
In my previous relationship, I ended up basically resigning myself to the fact that that was how my life would be until the end of time. I genuinely thought he was the man I wanted to spend my life with, but in the end, I just couldn't handle the circumstances that would have had me online under.
Of all the things you have written about your relationship, the one that has stood out to be the most is the description that it is “good but not ideal”. I know it might just be a question of semantics, but I'm a different long-term relationship now years later, and while it isn't always good, it is always ideal somehow.
Coming from the person with transphobic and misogynistic comments spread far and wide. Feel free to keep projecting sweetie 🙂
Listen to everyone else for the relationship advice
Can you finish on your own? Instead of laying there frustrated, just render him useless?
there's no indication in the post that she doesn't like stuffed animals.
I can't believe I have to say this about an intentionally ridiculous hypothetical, but I don't date Nazis.
You didn't have to say that, it wasn't assumed you did
He's the love of my life
You are using these words, but I do not think it means what you think it means.
How is he the love of your life if he doesn't make you feel loved and appreciated? You have to decide what you want, and move in that direction.