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Cara, Princess of the internet, first of her name, mother of camrooms, breaker of edging, oracle of CB., 23 y.o.
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Date: October 9, 2022
You’re looking at all of this as if “men” are this monolithic entity that treat you a certain way.
Do you even LIKE men? Do you want to spend time with a guy, find things in common, laugh and enjoy new experiences with him? Do you have men friends or even friendly coworkers?
If the answer to this is yes, then look for guys who enjoy doing things that you like to do. Hobbies, games, sports, food, arts, culture, travel, even faith based stuff if you’re a believer. And although you say you don’t care about looks, at least try to be well groomed and dress like you feel attractive. You don’t have to be gorgeous or even conventionally pretty to find a nice guy, but if you’re disheveled or oddly put together, it won’t help your cause.
It’s naked for socially awkward people to navigate this stuff. It took me decades to present myself in a way that didn’t repel people from being my friends, not just physically but how I spoke to people and handled social situations. It’s still very hot sometimes. Socializing for some of us is like speaking a second language.
Be polite but clear, end it. You shouldn't have to continue a relationship because you are afraid of them. You know what you have to do. Hopefully you can find a safe way. Hopefully you can find some support with friends or family. Good luck.
you don't have to stay with him. a decade's age difference is a pretty big red flag. you are young, and you are not stuck with someone that you are incompatible with.
If he's the most patient wonderful man you've ever met, you just haven't met enough men. And that's not surprising since you stopped dating new men when you were only 20. Meanwhile, men's brains really don't fully mature until they are at least 25. So maybe this guy will improve over the next few years — but maybe not, especially if he has you there to do all the emotional and actual labor caring for his cat.
Really, the best solution for this is to separate, and both of you spend more time growing as individuals before you settle down into a long term commitment.
Is it YOUR house? No. Should you be paying tens of thousands to remodel it? Also no. If you allow them, some men will exploit you financially, emotionally, sexually, whatever ways they can.
I understand you are afraid of the kids going to the system but you are putting that fear above peoples lives. Your friend is obviously, knowingly, and willingly having unprotected sex and exposing her partners. This is a major form of assault. She’s taking away their freedom and right to choose to protect themselves. She also needs to be reported because her current partner DESERVES to know what he is dealing with. HIV is not a small deal. It’s not like she cheated and this is a moral thing. She exposed multiple individuals to a incurable STI that will affect their health for the rest of their lives. And she took away their choice beforehand.
Is there a reason you need to bring your partner to the house?
Could you all just go out to a restaurant and spend time together that way?
I am the child of a hoarder. While I have brought partners to my parents house…. It has never been pleasant and I hate that I feel it reflects on me.
My husband has been to my parents house once. Whenever we see my family, it’s outside the house. It’s just not worth it for me.
I have mixed feelings. On the one hand, dude is more than inappropriate, probably illegal, possibly dangerous, and def needs not to be working at DMV. OTOH the point of respecting someone's rights–your gf's–is that it's her life and her decision.
I encourage her to do some reading about stalking and the danger she could be in from this guy.
I’m not sure it’s actually about the clothes or you; I think it might be an excuse to look at other women and he’s distracting you from that by referencing your clothing. You’ve been honest about your feelings and you have given him the chance to change his behavior, to no avail. His eyes seem to be everywhere but on you.
To me, if she’s masturbating that much, then she obviously isn’t satisfied with the sex life and is lying to you about it. You need to have a naked conversation about what what her needs are and where your boundaries are. Tell her you aren’t comfortable with her masturbating when you’re cuddling.
Well, from what it seems, they had 0 issues with us moving in together. It would actually be more expensive to live! separately, so financially makes way more sense to share a place. I think they are just using the excuse (they come from a traditionally male provides for woman place – ie USSR) that the man should pay for everything. My gf and I were both raised here so it makes no sense to either of us, and my parents don't share the same view either. I think they could have voiced this if they had an issue earlier, but it only became an issue this semester.
With an age gap like this, are you really surprised? Is anyone ever surprised when we see these posts of young chickens complaining about 10+ years older guys who can't do basic shit in their lives?
Why do you have to settle with a dude who's only good quality is that he was not completely rude to you ONCE?
Cheesus on a crispy toast, grow a spine and some self-respect. I'm done with y'all little ladies chasing elderly leftover garbage. And yes I'm older than your BF, we're still elderly compared to YOUR AGE.
OP please update us
You need to tell your friend the truth about her sister. What her sister is doing is sneaking and trifling. She’s asking you to lie to your best friend. She’ll be mad that you are keeping a huge secret from her and even more mad that you are actually considering it. If you actually go through with it that’s the end of the friendship.
Stop smoking before your baby is born.
Forget that shit and leave him. He's 33 and if he wanted to change he would've.
This is reddit, and you're a woman who hates her husband. This is an echo chamber for you, not an advice thread.
Ig there's nothing to prove. He'll have to decide for himself what to believe. He knows my character.
Did he ever follow through with his follow up? I’ve heard that if men don’t follow up the year post the procedure there is a chance of pregnancy
I also find it SO fascinating that you recently made a post about it not being shallow/insecure to not want to date a woman stronger than you. How would that be any less shallow than not dating someone for their looks?
If you like that you might like the tv show it's from, Futurama.
I mean I would do it but I’m snipped. Here is where I will warn you. After you do it one time it’s like a drug broski. I didn’t always hate condoms or pulling out but the moment I left it in, that all changed. I have now passed on sex because I needed a condom it just wasn’t worth it in my head.
Tread carefully.
Why are you being quizzed about this? It isn't anyone's business how much someone does this. It is weird and controlling to try and dictate your partners bodily autonomy.
That said, I see I comments you bug her for nudes and she isn't comfortable. STOP FUCKING DOING THAT. Only a moron would send a horny 21 year old pictures like that. She is protecting herself not to and you need to knock that the fuck off.
Aw hon, I’m sorry this happened, it sucks and it’s like a little heart break all over again. Everyone is different but I can tell you personally: I was with my SO for about 6 years, we went through separate things and both of our mental health suffered, I finally got through mine but realized he hadn’t. I had supported him through everything but realized the stress of his own expectations of what it meant to be in a relationship was becoming detrimental to him. We had a conversation and decided that we would basically break up. He moved out, stayed with his parents, got therapy, got to rediscover himself as an individual and work through the issues he was having, and after he got in a better place we got back together (after many conversations and open dialogue)
It takes work but it can happen, and it’s a really good thing that he recognizes he’s not “there” yet to be in a relationship. For now, just be his friend if it’s not too painful for you. Be there for him and support him as a friend with no expectation that there will be a relationship, and if one happens that’s wonderful! If not at the end of the day you still have your best friend you love and trust.
I would say though if you can’t handle going through that, it’s ok for you to be a bit selfish too and take space away from this friendship if you need. As long as he’s bettering himself and putting in the work to get better try to focus on that being the only outcome you want for BOTH of you, and then who knows!
I know it’s not the answer you were hoping for but that really is the healthiest approach for both of you.
I think that's a good way to think about it. Since making this post my perspective on things have certainly changed. This will be a test to see who's my real friends, and who wants to just stick around with complacency. Just for some numbers and “camaraderie” which isn't even really there if they take the stance that keeping him around and never fully holding him accountable is more important than someone's well being. That's not what real friends are. It's okay to feel pissed, and I don't need to forgive him if I don't want to (which right now, I don't until at least major efforts are made on his end, and even then I'm hesitant).
“Google it” was a shitty non-suggestion on her part. What she should be doing is taking that question to her therapist to help develop some tools appropriate to her situation.
I don't understand why you are with him considering how you KNOW he feels about women.
I'd genuinely ask him why he didn't get you a birthday gift
You break up and move on. She clearly isn’t in love with you anyway or proud of you at all.
Your husband is going to cheat on you for payback….hahaha…your loss…what a tramp
NO! Nothing had to be.
What's up with you, woman?
Why do you have such a guilt trip as to be the reason why somebody has or has not a high sex drive?
HIS behavior… related to HIM. Comes from inside of himself! Reason is HE himself.
Just like YOUR reason to go down the drain innerly is related to YOURSELF.
Not him!
You do urgently need therapy.
Your way of thinking is so horribly unhealthy!
There is… a LOT to unpack here.
Why would you want to date this asshole? He's not going to treat you well at all. Do you think you don't deserve better? He dead named your friend. He's not a good person at all. You will lose your best friend over this POS.
My ex wife did this
You will regret it all
Find a partner who loves you AND likes you for who you are
I think he knew you fpr a long time, and moved there to finally have the chance of getting closer.
Photos of you sleeping is concerning. I admit i made photoe of my partner sleeping but i showed them next morning and told them i made it because i did find them irresistibly beautiful.
Talk to him.
Or… he has hyperfocus and combed through the internet for them….
Very true, but I mean, if she's not looking at the messages I send her now, why would she look at one where I ask about her feelings?
So a son doesn't know when his parents are acting different? Why are you presumptions in opposition to what he's stating? You're giving his parents the benefit of the doubt and not extending it to him. Why is the friendship of such importance that thier willing to risk their relationship with their son.
The more appropriate response is “I know you're still friends with my ex but please don't invite her to any event I/we are planning to attend.”
The son gets priority not the ex.
Well looks like two days was all she needed to work on herself while you were put in the no flirt zone, time to move on my friend
She lied to your face after you asked her about sleeping with Bob. She is an attention seeker and likes to keep her “friend” around while she is in a relationship so she can both guys chase her. Drop her. She lies and has boundary issues- dealbreaker.