I don’t understand why people feel like they need Reddit to answer these idiotic questions. This is a no-brainer and I feel dumber for reading OP’s post.
Lmao your both 20, have been dating for one year and are at different unis and you think you wanna marry him. This story has played out a million times before. Be realistic and a bit more mature. It is not surprising your bf doesn’t want to potentially promise to commit to something as serious moving to another city to study for someone he hasn’t even been dating for a year. And this is not even a slight on you or your relationship it could be great and might last. Unless you have both been open on the page about it and discussed this is how you both feel which it doesn’t sound like from how you phrased it – being at this stage and having the mentality of “ I’m in it for all or nothing, I’m looking for someone who’s willling to do ANYTHING for us to workout”. That is not at all reasonable for this and he is almost certainly not on the same page on you as this and that is perfectly fair. Your advice really shouldn’t even anything – if your relationship is going strongly and isn’t going too badly long distance there is nothing to change – that’s is a reasonable response he gave. But if this is a deal breaker for you good luck to you in your future long term dating endeavours.
I don’t understand why people feel like they need Reddit to answer these idiotic questions. This is a no-brainer and I feel dumber for reading OP’s post.
Lmao your both 20, have been dating for one year and are at different unis and you think you wanna marry him. This story has played out a million times before. Be realistic and a bit more mature. It is not surprising your bf doesn’t want to potentially promise to commit to something as serious moving to another city to study for someone he hasn’t even been dating for a year. And this is not even a slight on you or your relationship it could be great and might last. Unless you have both been open on the page about it and discussed this is how you both feel which it doesn’t sound like from how you phrased it – being at this stage and having the mentality of “ I’m in it for all or nothing, I’m looking for someone who’s willling to do ANYTHING for us to workout”. That is not at all reasonable for this and he is almost certainly not on the same page on you as this and that is perfectly fair. Your advice really shouldn’t even anything – if your relationship is going strongly and isn’t going too badly long distance there is nothing to change – that’s is a reasonable response he gave. But if this is a deal breaker for you good luck to you in your future long term dating endeavours.
He sounds mentally unstable to be that flippy floppy
Your feelings are your and valid but at the same time not your sisters fault and you should try to get over them.