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We can’t ever know, because attractiveness is so subjective. And a mix of internal and external components of yourself in a world that’s constantly changing. So cliche, but the key is attract yourself so you want to be with you. Someone will see what a good time you’re having and want to be part of it. ?
Your bf is bothered if your dad grabs something from the pantry in your home that you purchased – am I reading this properly? If so, I am willing to bet your bf is a proper arsehole! A selfish, controlling one, at that.
My dearest, your father sounds like a lovely, albeit scattered brained, doting father. Please keep him close and continue spending time with him. I’m sure you mean the absolute world to him. In my culture, we take care of our parents/the elders. It’s an honor to do so for those that sacrificed so much for us.
You sound like a loving and dedicated daughter with a good head on her shoulders. Stand firm in your decisions and protect your dad at all costs. I would give all the treasures I have in order to have my father stay with me once again ♥️
Lastly, OP, whatever you decide to do, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE never ever ever add your bf name to your home.
Good Luck & Much Love ❤️
Pursuer-distancer dynamic.
If you’re committed, go to rehab. Get in a program and stick with it. You are not going to be a different version of yourself overnight, but investing in rehab, counseling, and a support program will help you get there AND give you daily opportunities to demonstrate to your partner that your commitment is real.
Good luck. I hope you get well and find some peace.
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Ya know I didn’t even think of it this way but true
Simply, I'm in same situation as boyfriend. Had surgery during covid and gained 84lbs Just if it's in budget buy him some new trainers and suggest a 60 min walk after every date
Leave them be, she'll eventually find out about him, one way or another.
you have problems with emotional self regulation
for this reason you to make hurtful upsetting threats
you are able to explain why you do it
BUT you have not sought help to learn how to control yourself so you can stop doing it
Honestly I think he should break up with you unless you make serious, tangible efforts to stop doing this to him.
You kept a safe distance and helped a woman in need
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It wasn't even a full 3 months and even if it was, that's no time at all in the grand scheme of things so I'm not understanding what you mean by throw “it all away”. Either way she chose to move on and you should do the same.
Yes, she 100% cheated. Your wife is also mostly likely lesbian.
The apple doesn’t fall far from the other apple. At least he didn’t say your mom.
I know it has. It will get better. Start volunteering somewhere. My mom taught me that the best way to get out of my own head was to give to others. I’ve done this and it works. Trying to force this is the one sure way to ensure she stays gone. What she’s doing is really healthy especially because she’s never been an adult alone. She needs this. I also think that if you learn how to on-line without her, it will be so much better if you get back together. Life can hurt sometimes.
The fact that they are using two forms of contraception makes me think that they aren’t being careless. For two forms of contraception to fail and result in two pregnancies is so unlikely. The op is adamant they don’t want another baby – I very much doubt she’s the one being careless.
But definitely reproductive coercion to control
Your wife needs the kind of support that can only be offered by a qualified mental health professional.
You cannot solve this problem on your own. She needs a doctor, in addition to your support.
Does that research include broken marriages like yours? Of course in general a healthy marriage is better for kids than divorced parents — but what about unhealthy marriages? I mean, in other cases you could argue that the parents can get counseling and maybe work through their problems and come out stronger. But in your case that’s not an option. Your marriage is not something that can be fixed by any amount of counseling. He is gay. Nude stop. He’ll never love you like a straight man will. You’ll be co-parents at best. Well. That’s what you are already. Co-parents that on-line together. Why not separate so you both can find true love?
It’s hot to discuss things fairly with a groomer, because they object to being called out about that.
When they play this game, they wait for the reaction they want. If you do not give it, they come crawling back with apologies and promises. This has happened to me. Just move on. Someone that childish should not be in a relationship.
ding ding ding we have a winner!
They aren’t happy in their relationship. One of them wants to get married and the other doesn’t. If she wants to get married she either leaves and finds some who is ready to get married now or she waits until he’s ready without pressuring him.
Let him. He's not your master. Maybe the blown vessel will magically change him into a decent person. OP you're in a bad situation that you need to get out of. You don't deserve this and your kids don't deserve this. You're not a person to this man. You're property in his eyes that he can abuse and toss away when he chooses.
If he’s not trying to dictate the time, then it sounds like he is just trying to do a nice small thing for you. Sounds like you found a winner!
I mean, there's very few ways to really get 'hard evidence' when they're hiding it. What's important is that you have it.
You don’t understand. My parents house is like the shows you’d see about the dirty hoarders on tv. It was terrible for my mental health and is horribly unkept. I cannot go through that again.
Reddit will throw metaphorical hands for someone stepping up despite knowing things may be difficult for them.
In the not too distant future this boy won't even exist in your world. He is a spine test; a child's mind hurdle for you to leap over on your way to thinking and acting like an adult with the spine to stand up for yourself. Yielding to him is choosing to stay a child and wait for permission and approval.
Pick a non-sexual moment and ask to talk with her. Tell her that you perceive her repeated and ongoing requests for non-monogamy as pressure because she is not honoring what you already said no to. Ask her to stop. No jokes, no tricks, no games. Just no.
Wise up girl and dump the loser.
Completely agree with this. I was physically abused one time by my partner after years of verbal abuse, he cried and promised to change and took full responsibility for it all and we went to couples counseling, after awhile he started to say it was both of our faults and I needed to take responsibility for my part in the abuse. It was the wildest thing, the therapist just gave him more ammunition against me and validated his constant deflection of blame back to me. It was suddenly my fault for not walking away sooner, it was my fault for letting him do it. I got the hell out of of there and always tell people in abusive relationships to NOT go to therapy together, get in for yourself.
I want to be able to articulate what I want without the conversation dissolving into an attack on my friends or my decision making skills.
You can't. He will never allow this. Ever. He's incapable.
You, he can control, he's been doing a good job of it so far. Everyone else, he can't. So, make everyone else the enemy. Your sister's the enemy. Your family's the enemy. Your friends are the enemy. Everyone on reddit saying how much red flags there are is the enemy. Professional therapists are the enemy.
It is completely sane and rational to be open-minded and consider other people's opinions as a way to inform your own opinion. He doesn't want you to be informed. He wants you to be controlled.
It's funny how his opinion is exempt from the whole “don't let other opinions sway you” thing, isn't it? He doesn't seem to care when it's his opinion that's putting pressure on you. Only when it's anybody else's.
I really appreciate your honesty. You’re right, I think it’s hot for me to believe that he has malicious intentions when it’s seemed like he really loves me (talking about marriage, our future together, being with me forever etc). But I think this is a part of him he can’t get rid of, no matter how much he “loves” anyone.
We think we are enough to suffice each other body needs, and I have 0 experiences in toys
She's pointing her rose-colored glasses at his junk! (per reddit)
I agree with the Reddit part. OP will have to learn the hot way.
Why did you feel the need to marry a man you probably barely knew? How old were you when you got married. Girl LEAVE. And maybe be single for a bit.
98% of people receiving alimony are women. But okay TiberiusBronte trying to find the exception in this is comical. When you know men pay more.
You don't really have her though, do you? Not if she feels more in love with someone else.
I don't quite know. It would certainly be frowned upon. I don't think I really care too much about what the school would do with the information. I just wish I could say out loud that ” this thing happened, and it shouldn't have happened”.
he made a joke saying no he doesn’t.
Yes, yes he does and the fact he thinks he doesn't need to ask is a big red flag.
No, I mean do you think she's going to tell her kids the truth? Do you think she'll take ownership, or are you about to be the villain of the story? Be honest.
Lied about what
I think the bottom line is that every couple has what works for their relationship. If he wants to keep his stuff private, that should be his right within the relationship. He is an independent person outside of your relationship, and his friends value that any information they’re divulging stay private as well. If you want to give him access to your devices that’s your right, but you don’t have too. What matters is you both trust each other, if you’re suspicious and he’s showing the signs of infidelity that’s understandable but outside of that no it shouldn’t raise any red flags unless you yourself have trust issues, which should be managed with an outside source (therapist)
At first I’m like, maybe she wants just quality time with her friends, maybe not ready to take that next step and merge her two world’s so de it’s her first relationship.
Then I realize as Im reading this two things stood out.
1) You accidentally showed up to the same bar and didn’t realize she was there. Small town, it happens. Nothing you can do. But you also stayed there instead of moving the hangout to another bar once you realized she was there.
2) Neither of you approached one another. You both MIRRORED the same energy of walking on eggshells pretending you two do not exist in the same damn bar! You both acted like two teenagers afraid to go say hello in the lunch room and afraid of everyone’s opinion if you two talking to one another.
So as someone whose 36… let me share some advice…
When someone wants to bring you into their world when you are dating?
YOU NEVER HAVE CHASE/ASK FOR THIS! The person will gladly introduce you, they’ll move at an organic pace, they’ll MAKE THE EFFORT!
Cause my money says if this is happening?
She didn’t tell her friend group about you and was on purpose, since she’s starting med school, probably was going to breakup with you before she started her fall semester.
I guarantee she had zero plans to get serious with you.
Hence why she wasn’t looking to introduce you.
Its ok
Sounds like you’re overreacting. How are you being replaced by someone I’m assuming he’s never even met as you guys do other activities together?
tell him to stop being a sus ass and get his ass tf home. YNTA