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QUEEN CATALINA FOLLOW ME AND PLAY
Date: December 22, 2022
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“I’m not. I acknowledged how he felt and reassured him that’s not the case, but that it’s an odd..dynamic having all my 20-22 year old friends and then just my 34 year old boyfriend there”
It's also an odd dynamic for a 34 year old to date a 20 year old. There are many red flags in his isolating behavior.
She has WAY more reasons to break up with YOU. It sucks that you managed to groom a 17 year old into getting into a relationship with you, because she probably now realizes this isn't what she is ever going to want.
The point of a new car is that it's less of a headache than a beater.
Do people actually believe this is a real post?
Your relationship is over, be thankful you don't have kids to get caught up in the wake of its destruction like someone I know who heard these exact complaints from her husband 3 years ago. It sucks, you will get better though and you will find better.
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What you’re experiencing is called, “maturity”. Your relationship is no longer based on lust and infatuation, it’s based on more complex and mature emotions.
Boredom is a real side effect of familiarity. It may be that you have a completely different appetite for excitement than she does. You should talk to her about it.
Here’s the thing, I did make that suggestion. I offered to take him home and get him some medicine, which she was not willing to do and decided to go home with us.
Thanks homie
We're all looking at this sober and with 20/20 hindsight. We weren't there during the attempted threesome, riding passenger in either of their minds so to speak.
By the sound of it this wasn't some 2 hour porno romp with enough time to figure out where the third person went off to. Sounds more like maybe a couple of minutes, 10 or 15 at most where they tried to engage OP but because of the reasons he stated he couldn't.
If you're spending half that time trying to engage the third partner but can't and the vibe is starting to hit for the other two. I dunno man. I'd not judge OP or GF too very hot.
Being (semi) drunk and aroused, that's a good cocktail to not be fully present or cognisant of what everyone else in the room is doing with multiple partners. Especially if it's their first time in a threesome.
No, I was asking why being on her father’s insurance was wild.
Also, did this man say how long of a bus ride this would have been? A 20 minute drive can turn into 2 hours by bus, and that’s not really a reasonable option.
Yes it is considering the context of those emotions. She is 100% allowed to feel what she feels, but we can’t really get mad at OP for refusing to stand by indefinitely while she works through those feelings.
It’s clearly not about the fruit. Your mother is desperate to interact with her son and grandson. To need such a silly excuse means you and your wife have some truly ostracized her from your life. You and your wife have some truly incredible issues, and you in particular seem to have your head so far in the sand that you’re probably going to pop out in China. Divorce isn’t a possibility, it’s inevitable. The good news is, you’ll probably have wasted valuable years ignoring your mother as well. Nice job, dude!
This is a very simple matter: you are going to have to choose between giving up your sex life at 28 years old or breaking up with your partner. There really isn't much more to it.
Understand that even if she decides to “give in” and have sex with you so that you can stay, if she truly is asexual it will eventually be too much for her and you will get back to this exact point. Sadly there is nothing else you could possibly do, she is asexual, you are not. You're kinda like a straight dude trying to convince a lesbian woman to give him a chance.
Let this be a learning experience for you, at least you now know how much you value your sexual life.
Oh I forgot to say, you should not feel gross at all, it's completely normal to want to have an active sex life in your 20s. Her comment was definitely way out of place, and you did nothing wrong at all. But I believe that her rudeness is not really the problem in your relationship.
That's all I meant. And it's kind of his problem too though, if she ends up losing her job altogether and can't pay at all, either he covers her share or they get evicted or something. The whole thing of him moving with her sounds ill thought out.
First let me say I’m a guy. Second drop this guy if continues to insist on no protection. That speaks volumes and not in a good way
Awww man. Bummer but at least now you know. Feel for your buddy though.
As others have echoed the best course of action is to talk about this is a productive way. Talk about feelings on both sides and be open to what he has to say.
quit stringing her along ya cunt
Is he doing it on purpose? Perhaps throwing a lot of toilet paper first, then poop, then more toilet paper, to make sure that the toilet indeed gets clogged and thus forcing his wife to deal with it? Even if it's not on purpose this is 100% a control issue and possibly also a fetish but it's being done without consent, so, totally wrong.
Not everyone is going to like you. Don’t let it stress you out. It’s not worth it. Just forget about them and move on.
He got the vasectomy.. he didn't do the follow up though.. so here we are.
?Scotty doesn’t know?
he decided he didn't want me there
Doesn't this clear up a lot of uncertainties for the two of you ?
Your SIL sounds like she's after the money but you need to protect yourself too. Get a prenup and protect your assets in the event of a divorce. That money is a lifetime of financial freedom with or without your husband and you don't want him to walk away with half of it if something goes wrong. It's a safety net and I know some people go crazy when they get their hands on a chunk of money.
Be honest and upfront with your fiance and work through it together.
Don't know if it's very common. I am M48, wife F43, together for 24 years, married for 19, and I've got plenty of friends around my age, some of them from back in high school.
Don't know if it's very common. I am M48, wife F43, together for 24 years, married for 19, and I've got plenty of friends around my age, some of them from back in high school.
A break in the relationship is just that. You broke the relationship up for however long the two of you decide. That means during that break, you both are single, you are Not in a relationship with that person. And you are the one that's doing the crazy girlfriend shit. You need to knock that off, you need to get the hell out of his house, and you need to leave him alone.
You wanted some time for reflection you could have just said, hey I'm going to be unreachable for a day or two I need to get my head together after this fight that we just had where I lied to you. We are still in my eyes dating, I just need a few days of physical and mental space to get myself straightened out. That is asking for a break.
When you tell a guy we need a break in this relationship that means that at that point you wish to be single for some amount of time to decide whether you wish to continue down the path of that relationship or you wish to physically go do shit with someone else, but until you physically go and talk to that boyfriend that you just wanted a break from again and physically state that you wish to resume the relationship, you are single and so is he.
Is he in a psych unit?
Depression is a crazy thing. He obviously needs professional help, and you need to focus on bringing your baby into the world. Let him get the help he needs, and see what comes of that down the road. You cannot help him in the way he needs right now
What kind of backwards logic is that? This is the person she's going to be spending her life with, why should she keep parts of herself hidden away? And I mean this in general, why be with someone if you're not going to be honest? No one is entitled to intimate details, then what's the point of sharing your life with the person? I swear I don't understand this, I want my partner to know all of me not just the good parts.
Using that logic, was it sexual assault any time you had sex with her after the first two times she tried to break up with you? You know, because she didn't want to be with you.
I can see why her parents don't like you
No one every moves on from this? How old are you?
I’m really glad you are an empowered woman and called out your (gross) boyfriend about this. Honestly I’d dump any man who casually talks about a r*pe attempt and doesn’t hold the predator accountable. And then to KEEP sexually harassing her?
I mean, if you live! in the USA she could sue the company and your boyfriend for his “reactions”
He’s not 14. He needs to do better. Maybe dumping him would help him realize how unacceptable he is being.
He needs to apologize to the WOMAN he shared the office with and is harrassing.
It can be reversed.
I wonder if OP can get her a set of 5lb dumbbells that she can use in bed? Even that little bit of activity might be enough to help build a bit of muscle and burn some extra calories.
If the bride told your girlfriend that the boy liked her, but that she told him that she was in a relationship. Your girlfriend understood it as it had been handled already. She met the boy for 5 minutes and didn't put any more thoughts into him as she had so much to think about with her friend getting married.. Then when it seemed as he didn't just get it and wentaway. She told you. You really should try and find someway so you and your woman can laugh together over his feeble attempts instead of feeding the green monster..
Sooo, just curious, what would he do if you set up a Tinder (or any swipe account) and just had a go with all those (& there will be a lot) available men?
Not that you would but doubt he’s even considered you rightly could. He’s so focused on getting his jollies, bet he hasn’t even considered the reverse.
Darlin’ I’m not making light of a sad situation for you, just want you to see his selfish behavior for what it is. You deserve someone who appreciates all you have to offer. He no longer is that deserving person.
Lmfao the person above you is encouraging OP to keep enjoying the free vacays and the condo and also saying sm about how her “soul will not fed by this boy”.
What other benefits are there that you can think of off hand?
Great ideas!
My mistake.
It's *an “early long-distance relationship”
She’s in a relationship with him and she said she loves him.
If I had a dollar, or whatever currency you want to measure that in, for every single time I see somebody claim to be in love with somebody else when in reality they're just kids who don't know any better, I'd be able to buy twitter back from Elon Musk.
This whole situation is about people meeting live! and being in LDR and the she found out the guy fucking stinks after meeting him in real life. There's no love here, these are live chatting buddies who got infatuated with their ideas about themselves, because they haven't yet met a better potential partner in real life.
Just take a fucking shower it's not rocket science.