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Date: October 4, 2022
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So what you know about him: 1. He’s a liar, who is more than comfortable lying to you about your relationship. 2. He’s extremely shallow, brags about you being younger than him, NOT as a joke. This indicates what he finds valuable and desirable in a partner. 3. He sleeps with anyone who gives him the option 4. He manipulated someone into leaving their husband to sleep with them. 5. HE WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FUCKING HIGHSCHOOL CHILD. Idk what the law says, that’s a fucking child and his behavior is beyond repulsive.
If all you’re worried about is him cheating on your and leaving you when you’re older, then yes, of course he’s going to do that. He probably won’t wait until you’re much older before he starts cheating, but yeah he’s absolutely going to leave you for a younger girl when he’s older and the option presents himself. That being said, that really shouldn’t be all that worries you. The fact that he’s apparently a disgusting person should really worry you.
Again, you’re trying to set up a schedule. Don’t. Remember, guys and ladies process these things differently. I get that you’re trying to help and be supportive and such, but this is something he needs to do on his own. Limit your involvement only to setting the stage for some sexy fun, and don’t look toward the penetration as the ultimate goal.
Is this something that she wants to try and address, or is she done with sex and you can take it or leave it?
Either way, you need to stop begging for sex. That is a sure fire way to ensure that she will continue to not want sex or even grow to deeply resent the idea of having sex with you and despise physical contact with you.
You want her to want sex, but right now 100% of the sex she’s having is sex that she does not want. Have you ever decided that you wanted more of some thing that you didn’t want but were repeatedly pressured into? Don’t completely sabotage any hope of a future with sex.
If she wants to work on this, you should find a good sex therapist, and check out the book Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (she also has a podcast, but the book is essential reading.) She talks about the dual control model of arousal and offers real, practical solutions for addressing stuff like this.
If she doesn’t want to work on this, then you need to except that she does not want to have sex anymore. Then you either decide to part ways or renegotiate your relationship so that you can both be reasonably happy and secure.