How do you want your relationship to go? It sounds like he wants sexual pleasure without emotional connection or commitment. Is that something you’re into? If yes, great! Enjoy it. If not, then I would suggest not seeing him again.
He controls his own choices, and you control yours. Focus on what you want and don’t give in to someone else’s desires unless they align with your own in the moment. It’s okay to get caught up. It’s okay to not be perfect or perfectly align with your own values in every moment but make sure you always take a second to check in with yourself and ask yourself if what you’re doing feels right and good to you or if you’re feeling pressured to set aside your own needs for someone else.
I hate cleaning, cleaning the toilet, tile, vacuuming. I hate it.
When I lived alone, every week a cleaning lady came to me and cleaned my apartment. I earn money for this, it suits me. While she cleans up, I walk my dog.
When I started dating my current boyfriend, I was blunt with him, there will not be a situation in this life where I will vacuum. I told him that I have a cleaning service, and I am completely satisfied with it. It was ok for him.
Then he began to live! with me in my apartment and I continued to pay for cleaning.
After that, we rented a larger apartment, and at some point he was no longer satisfied with the quality of cleaning.
At one turning point, he decided that the quality of cleaning was so bad that he would clean himself.
Three years have passed since then, he continues to clean himself.
I sometimes make the bed linen and that's it.
It suits him, he likes to clean, I hate cleaning.
You probably either need to hire a service or your girlfriend needs to find someone like my boyfriend.
How creepy! The people at the resort didn't sign on foot a free sex show. Are you still dating this guy??
Honestly what a weirdo of your bf.
How do you want your relationship to go? It sounds like he wants sexual pleasure without emotional connection or commitment. Is that something you’re into? If yes, great! Enjoy it. If not, then I would suggest not seeing him again.
He controls his own choices, and you control yours. Focus on what you want and don’t give in to someone else’s desires unless they align with your own in the moment. It’s okay to get caught up. It’s okay to not be perfect or perfectly align with your own values in every moment but make sure you always take a second to check in with yourself and ask yourself if what you’re doing feels right and good to you or if you’re feeling pressured to set aside your own needs for someone else.
I'm like your girl.
I hate cleaning, cleaning the toilet, tile, vacuuming. I hate it.
When I lived alone, every week a cleaning lady came to me and cleaned my apartment. I earn money for this, it suits me. While she cleans up, I walk my dog.
When I started dating my current boyfriend, I was blunt with him, there will not be a situation in this life where I will vacuum. I told him that I have a cleaning service, and I am completely satisfied with it. It was ok for him.
Then he began to live! with me in my apartment and I continued to pay for cleaning.
After that, we rented a larger apartment, and at some point he was no longer satisfied with the quality of cleaning.
At one turning point, he decided that the quality of cleaning was so bad that he would clean himself.
Three years have passed since then, he continues to clean himself.
I sometimes make the bed linen and that's it.
It suits him, he likes to clean, I hate cleaning.
You probably either need to hire a service or your girlfriend needs to find someone like my boyfriend.