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Date: October 3, 2022
Dude do you not trust your girl people get crushes it’s perfectly normal the fact she is communicating with you should tell you something
I think if you post at the wrong time of day on this sub you get crap like this?
Short answer: no, it's not worth staying in this relationship.
More thoughtful answer: Think about what you'd do if your very best friend came to you and said that her boyfriend doesn't want to support her. What would you counsel? What would you say to her? You know your boyfriend is not treating you well, OP. You don't need us, the internet strangers, to validate this feeling. This isn't going to change. He can't even handle the most basic fundamental of a relationship: communication. You will be so much happier without him, trust me.
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“i feel as if it was my duty as his mom to try harder to stay in his life.” As very hot as it may be you shouldn't beat yourself up too much over this.
You told him your door is always open should he change his mind, have tried to spend time with him and call him (even if he didn't care for it) and I get the feeling of wanting to try harder but the problem with that is if you did try harder your ex could've used it as an excuse to bully you even more by getting you arrested for harassment of a minor and given how hot son fell for his manipulation tactics, he likely would've co-operated and that could've resulted in big trouble.
You didn't do anything wrong. The only one that deserves any blame is the toxic ex.
You forgot wonderful lol cause he clearly isn’t that either
To be honest those kids are probably tired of watching their dad bring in partners. I know you love your man, but these are his kids at the end of the day. And until you give him the ultimatum of where this relationship is going, the behavior from them will continue. You got to know where you stand and right now, your just the dads new partner. You are not their mother, but that doesn't mean you can't be one to them in the future. But until then, id give yourself some distance from the relationship and ask him where does he see this going. Cause if your goal is to want kids, it may not bode well for this relationship as the behavior could ramp up in the kids. Also, he may not want more kids. It's ok to leave a relationship if it's not going to become more. Your 23, he's 40. Time to sit down and cut the BS and ask serious questions about your future in this relationship.
What she did to your daughter alone was not excusable. Why do you want a woman back who talks like that to your daughter? Soon you girlfriend wants you to get ride of your child with how she behaves.
I read the comments and was absolutely bewildered.
He knew. He totally knew. There is no way in hell this dude did not know he had mfing worms crawling around his privates. I am so angry for this girl rn and I wish I had award for your comment
He is working in a cruise ship
Thank you, I will get onto doing this.
Yeah it's still devastating though. I don't know what came over me to even suggest something like that as I always been against it. I have a sober mind now and I tried messaging her that it was an impulsive thought and I didn't mean it but I don't think it helped. She did message me yesterday morning saying that it made her feel like she wasn't enough in our relationship and it hurt her. I tried reassuring her too but it didn't seem to help much. We're currently on a temporary long distance situation, which was why I started looking at porn in the first place” but I never thought this would ever happen.
No, generally it isn't worth it. If you are honestly going about your life and happen to run into someone great, that's awesome! However, planning to date to “get back out there” is most likely only to give you a buffet of jackasses that no other women wanted either. There are plenty of worthwhile men around, but you likely won't meet them on the dating scene. Many of them in your age-group have also likely had experiences with women similar to yours with your ex. My best advice would be to try to be content alone, but keep your eyes peeled for something that YOU like, and bonus points if he doesn't hit on you or try to seduce you immediately. A lot of the best men and women out there have been through the gauntlet and can be a tad hesitant to put themselves out there.
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He has made me completely financially dependent on him
How has he MADE you dependent on him?? In any case, you need to get financial independence first and then leave.
What's so unbelievable about a grown man who doesn't know women shit but knows what a butt plug is and where to acquire one on demand?
Wouldn’t the biggest f*ck you be to just do the test and he sees that all the kids are his?
Also, your kids probably notice that the 16 year old doesn’t look like his father as well. Wouldn’t hurt to shut down any doubts from everyone
You are already married…common law marriage is a thing
It's that or OP pays for his (not exactly cheap, ongoing, and consistent) therapy sessions.
I think he is trying to be lighthearted
it must be very hot for him too
Thanks for clarifying lol
Dude I personally think you’re making a mistake getting a vasectomy as an adult. But I support your decision to do so.
I did. He said it’s an escape. ?
Oh Jesus Christ. If you care about this girl at all, don’t ruin her life by getting her pregnant and dependent on a 40-year-old friend of her dad’s when she hasn’t even finished school yet.
I was told so much that people wouldn’t like me or want to be friends if I didn’t look a certain way. Now I’m stuck with deep insecurities thinking that everyone is judging how I look and cares about how I look. I have tons of friends. I have had many relationships and have a great boyfriend. But I will still always care way too much about what other people think (until I get help for it).
This was taught by my father. What he wants to teach your daughter can end up being so detrimental to her mental health.
I'm 31 and still wouldn't date a man in his 40s. So gross.
I would go to individual therapy if I was you.
I wanted to say good job on blocking her. She may have a mood disorder or whatever, but that does not mean you have to deal with her behavior. As they say, never let someone they don’t want you twice. Blocking you is essentially saying that she does not want to hear from you. She seems to unblock you to boost her ego, to know that your are still waiting for her even if she has blocked you. It’s pretty sick and twisted. Odds are she will either be mad or super regretful when she realizes you are over it. Don’t be fooled though, that is NOT love. It is simply too mentally draining and you do deserve better. It sounds like you really love and care for her, so do not let yourself give her any way of contacting you. She will simply make up excuses and make you feel like things will be better. It’s gonna be very hot to move past her and the situation, maybe even seek therapy. Nevertheless, future you will thank you for removing yourself from this situation.
You don’t have to get married to build a future with someone
If this is real, then I don't see a solution. This is not the person for you.
Return the ring. I sympathize with you being mad at the cheater but you weren’t truthful with us. You said you needed some of the stuff, so I’m thinking he bought you a bed or college schoolbooks but then you said you didn’t want to part with the ring.
When combined with three others does it help you summon Captain Planet?
Return the ring and only the ring
Wow. Even more disturbing he insists you be there. I INSIST he is a total jerk and I hope a bird poops on him during his vows.
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My gf and I have been dating for 2 years, and things are going reasonably well, except this one thing. She will not just come to my house or let me go to her house to watch a movie or TV show, she won’t let us just cuddle or hang out or anything. There has to be a date or dinner first. She’s not so picky on what we do, but that part is important. She makes time for this once a week usually on the weekends, but I usually plan all of our activities.
I feel like I’m not getting enough intimacy in the relationship because it’s confined to narrow moments, usually once a week. What do you think I should do?
When I’ve brought this up, she says she’s old fashioned and just hanging out isn’t something she does.
TL;DR: GF only wants to see me if there’s a planned date
Edit: To add some more information, she’s not seeing anyone else, I’m sure of it. We have sex and sleep over after dates, and the dates don’t have to be expensive or anything, they can be going for a hike. It just has to be something.
I know this is going to sound like I'm being condescending, but age gives some perspective. A brief LDR at age 19 is barely above a playground engagement that ends by the home bus. It's certainly not something to plan your life around.
If the relationship is meant to be, it will survive seeing each other on tourist visas for enough time for you to be more sure of its longevity.
I agree with the husband.
No one ever takes the father's voice to heart. Men have absolutely no say in what happens to the child, whether it's abortion or adoption or kept.
That was your choice that you made against his wishes.
Welcome to reality. This happens in almost every relationship.
Unfortunately, just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you won't be attracted to others. What matters is how you deal with it. The reason why old couples are together is because they don't give into temptation. Yes, they may occasionally have crushes, but as long as they don't act on it, the feelings will eventually go away.
You're bored. The honeymoon phase has ended and you're looking for some excitement. When you meet a new girl, you feel al, the butterflies and happy feelings.
That is called dopamine and oxycodone – those are the chemicals that go through your brain when you have a crush, or when you're in a new relationship. Those chemicals are ADDICTIVE. But unfortunately they don't last. Things will stabilise, you'll start to see each ithers flaws, and THATS where the real work comes in. It doesn't matter who you're with, the happy chemicals will eventually subside, but if you stick it out and work through your problems (provided there's nothing catastrophic like abuse or infidelity), your love, respect, and appreciate for each other will continue to grow.
Kinda sounds like a white dude w an Asian fetish dating a self hating Asian girl.
Oddly enough, it’s actually pretty fuckin common lol. It’s those white dudes that “LOVVE” Asian girls and Asian girls that only date white dudes
OP,
I grew up poor and I was told that Santa existed, and when I grew up and found out that he didn't exist, I was not upset at my parents at all. What ever I got, I learned that it was all my parents could afford.
Did something happen to you as a child when you found out there was no Santa? If so, do not project on your children.
If your children comes home from school and says, mom why does Santa not stop by our house on Christmas, what are you going to say? There is no Santa? Then your children go to school and tell all their friends that Mom said there is not Santa. Now you have parents trying to calm their children down.
If the both of you are on two different spectrums on how to raise your children and with holidays like Christmas, your relationship is going to be doomed as of right now.
I think it's really important to realize that different states have different laws about child custody. I don't know where they on-line, but I do know that in some states, it is a crime for a single Mom to abandon her children. Even if it's with the baby daddy. Remember, they aren't married. In many places, that would make her the sole legal guardian. OP needs to be very careful he isn't stepping into a situation where she can claim abuse. Her being dicked down in the park wouldn't really be relevant to CPS (unfortunately).
Sounds like my dad.. he is a very stubborn and pedantic man (even though he is a great dad) living with someone like that is very hot! They get worse and worse. My poor mother walks on egg shells cause she has remember when she puts stuff. If you can't handle it now leave
I can be jealous but your comfort comes ahead of ego in this situation. The friend did the right thing.
Yes, plenty of times.
Then they end up sleeping with someone else or go on dates and OP wants to make a surprise pikachu face because that didn't cross their mind.
Technically if they are on a break it's not cheating type bullshit.
I am infuriated and saddened on your behalf OP. I know you know that this is totally unacceptable, but please let me remind you that this is totally fucking unacceptable. I understand that you feel your employer probably won’t do anything (small company, no HR) but I think you’d be doing your future self a solid to report this regardless. They might actually take action. Maybe your asshat coworker gets a talking to and gets it through his thick skull that his behavior was incredibly inappropriate and damaging. Maybe he doesn’t, and tries this bullshit again. If so' you are on record as having reported it. In that case, good thing you took notes of date/time/what was said.
God forbid your ex actually finds you at work, once again you will have already documented the situation. Your safety is the priority, and I can’t imagine a situation where you are safer by not reporting this.
I had an ex like this. He is dead now so I don’t have to worry but I am worried for you. I have had this discussion with several employers when he was alive and they were all a lot more receptive than I expected. Telling trusted colleagues made me feel a lot better too. Please put your safety first. And second put your asshole coworker in his place.
most single parents I've known do not introduce their children to any and everybody they date until they know things are solid. doing otherwise can be very confusing for young children. so the fact that you haven't met then after only one month is not at all surprising.
typically, if things continue to get serious, the both of you would discuss the first meeting a little– is it time, what exactly are we telling the kids, how do we best put forth a unified front, etc. this is probably a good time to have a frank conversation with him regarding your concerns over his parenting style.
that's another good reason the “meet the kids” conversation usually doesn't happen right away– you barely even know the guy, so it might seem a little soon to be voicing concerns such as these. do note I'm not saying you're wrong, necessarily… just that it might be very hot for some single parents to take advice from a childless person they just met.
otherwise, you're going to have to truthfully assess the baby momma situation because guess what? no matter what happens, that woman will always be that child's mother. get used to seeing her face, cause it'll probably be a common sight.
if you cannot remind yourself “he's with me; he knew her first and yet chooses to be with me.” then you might not want to date a single parent.
… I'm not dunking on you, I'm telling you straight up, as someone who once got called names and challenged to a fight by a drunken baby daddy many years ago. I know it's early, but don't think that as your role in the relationship with him increases, the baby mommy's role will decrease– it doesn't work that way. (by the way, you should be happy they have a good relationship as co-parents. you don't want the alternative.)
so, the jealousy thing is all up to you to solve. there is a clear logical reason why your bf and the baby momma will remain in contact, so it's on you to square that jealousy away.
if you figure that out, you might have the conversation about when to meet the kiddos as a next step. agree as a couple when that meeting should take place. then maybe ask him if he would be amenable to discussing his parenting style, etc. you should be able to speak openly and frankly (assuming you are doing so respectfully– they are still his kids).
if you can't or don't want to do all that, I'd advise you to not seriously date single parents.
Work out what you want in your mind before you go over, she is married to your husbands best man and presumably best friend.
If you don't want her in your life, then have that discussion with your husband.
But to be clear I would absolutely be putting boundaries in place with him continuing a friendship with her after her expression of desire.
If you think it will be therapeutic to meet up and yell at her, then sure go for it. but otherwise, is there anything you really want to hear from her that hasn't been said already.
In Asia? Your BF and his friends can't possibly do a whole-ass country, even SG, in just one trip. Visit later with him and experience things/places that will be new to both of you.
Your mother allowed you to be put in harms way. Whether or not she wanted to do something about it for herself, is her business. But to let her child be abused that same way and not protect you is wild.
If everyone is aware and does not care, maybe NC should extend to everyone. Not picking a side IS picking a side when it comes to inexcusable actions:
lol i think everyone will have different feelings about it so you just have to decide it it's okay for you 🙂