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Date: November 2, 2022
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It sounds like he wanted to be the hero like in one of his weird stories but then got his old ass kicked instead. He's probably realizing he's not some white knight, and just a loser that had enough money to trick a very naive young woman into having his babies. Maybe he's worried about his longterm ability to financially support the household alone and keep buying you enough gifts to keep you around.
Bad troll
If he wanted to have that talk, he could have had it for the hundreds and hundreds of days he knew about the guy before he got flustered and mad about some gossip and made himself her ex-fiancé.
Being gay isn’t some perfect cover. People can be bisexual, people can experiment, people can lie. Also, OP has stated elsewhere that her ex-fiancé has traveled with women friends, so he does not get to claim the conservative hyper-monogamy card where what he wants is no friends of the opposite sex ever. That lifestyle is unhealthy in my book but if both people are okay with it, whatever! But he can’t even act like that’s why he was upset, if he likes traveling with his friends.
If you’re going to commit to spending the rest of your life with someone, they need to be able to rely on clear and adult communication if one of the parties feels uncomfortable about a friendship or other relationship.
Ex-fiancé proved in one fell swoop that he’s not someone you can rely on to share his thoughts and level with you if he’s starting to feel jealous or emotional.
People get jealous about all sorts of rational and irrational and legitimate and not legitimate reasons. Everyone has things that make them feel jealous or insecure— some are more jealous or more insecure more often, others have very particular things. The problem isn’t that the best friend was gay or not gay, it’s that this conversation should have happened a million years prior to him blowing up and dumping her over hanging with a childhood friend if he was feeling even a little uncomfortable about the situation.
I'm in the same boat brother, but life moves on. Don't waste energy where energy won't be returned. Find something worth putting your energy into, focus on the gym or finding someone who you doesn't leave you asking questions like this one does. Keep your head up high, there will be another you like just as much if not more that's worth the effort.
Exactly. The big thing driving (no pun intended) a lot of the comments here is the marital status and gender roles.
My uncle (who owns a used car dealership) gave me a car for my 18th birthday. Nothing grand. It was probably worth $9-10K and he probably wanted to get it off the lot. If my dad had been pissy and claimed that his brother was trying to step in and be a dad to me, I'd have told dad to get some fresh air. That's not what any of this is about.
Egos suck.
The only reason that I (29m) spend time with people that aren't already 30 at least is because I work in retail down the street from a major University for my area. It can be very naked on me sometimes, as I crave being invited to go out with friends since COVID started, but my coworkers and I think very differently.
Hell, dating is especially out the window, as the only single girl is 20 and more like a younger sister to me.
Anyone demanding to be part of their SO friend group, while having such a large age gap, in my eyes is either a control freak or deeply insecure about their relationship with you. Guys can be even worse if they are the older ones, as they might be getting uninterested in who they are dating, or worried to the point of insecurity that a friend of the SO that is closer in age might “steal” their girl.
Ironically, I kinda feel the same way, but I prefer older women, so I'm also talking from experience but on the other side of the spectrum.
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If your bf would have asked here for advice he would hear overwhelming message to break up with you, as you prioritise your guy friend over him and try to gaslighting.
For I don't know what to tell you, you lie to your bf to meet with your “friend”. Assuming it's a bs a you really want to stop seeing than go to a therapy for “people pleasing”. Also if you tell Ed to leave you alone and fuck off he probably will. While it is the radical approach this is what you do. If you don;t want to meet with someone you don't ignore them you tell them you don;t want to meet them and keep contact. Should they keep insisting you get rude and tell to fuck off and then you block them. This is what you do.
If you aren't willing to be rude to Ed for the sake of your relationship than break up with your bf he deserves someone better. If just a matter of feeling unable to than tell your bf everything, let him tell ED to fuck off and go to therapy to be able to do it yourself in the future.
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No, because it was a reasonable request by your girlfriend and it would be disrespectful if you argued against her boundaries.
You're being a shit boyfriend to her right now
get the vibe that she's more into this guy than she's into you.
Possibly. She has been spending a lot more time away from me after a worse turn in our relationship. I believe she doesn't have much interest in fixing the relationship.
But I also kind of get the vibe that you're steering the vibe that way with the way you described the situation. I don't know if that's intentional, subconscious, or you're just accurately reflecting what happened, but people often have a bit of bias without realizing it, so I tend to allow for the potential of subconscious bias. You kind of have to when you're only getting one side of the story.
I try not to be but of course I may be doing so, subconsciously. This story is mainly from my perspective so I don't know what it's like from her side. She could actually have been ignoring my calls or not, I wouldn't know. I doubt she is cheating, but she does want to spend more time with other people rather than with me nowadays.
I think it's fair to be firm that she has to inform guys she hangs out with that she's not single. I think that's a very fair boundary to have. Like you're not even saying she can't hang with guys, but they have to know she's not single.
I agree, and if my relationship doesn't end, I'll be sure to communicate this to her. And yes, I allow her to hang with guys, but I did tell her to let me know if she's going alone to a singular guy's house.
100%. Therapy isn't just for people with mental health issues. It's up-skilling for everyone
It could probably have been handled better than that, but it is what it is. It's done now. You can't really negotiate sexual attraction or desire with someone. If he doesn't have an interest in being sexual as often or in the ways you want, you can't talk him out of that, you know? That's probably just who he is.
And even if you took him back, it wouldn't be much fun for him or for you. You'd be essentially saying, “I'll take you back, but only if you do the following sexual things”. That's essentially coercion. And who wants a partner who only wants them because he or she has been pushed into it? Noone, right? You want to feel genuinely desired for yourself.
You might want to consider apologising for how it all happened and just being totally honest with him so he knows for the future – if he's a nice guy otherwise, maybe he deserves that – but I wouldn't suggest seeking to restart your relationship.
You're young and there's a world of good people out there, plenty of whom will align better with your sexual interests and desires. Take a bit of time and see what you can find.
Why can't people be grown and just break up? How does I kissed a guy and he dumped me in any way better to do it than just freaking break up.
No problem. My wish for you is a wonderful relationship.
You easily fell for her friend. You didn’t ask for any proof from this friend. And what was cheating on your wife going to prove? Getting ‘revenge’ by cheating on her back (Even though she never cheated) is very petty. You should’ve separated if you didn’t believe her. But it’s too late now and you’ve made a fool out of yourself. Be honest with her, do not sugarcoat what happened, and let her decide what she wants to do. I sincerely hope she dumps you and her friend. Your wife deserves better.
I’m sorry to say this, but you need to grasp your balls and just move out. You’re a party to disgusting and illegal behaviour, have not reported your sister, and are actually an accessory to a crime as you aided your sister in feeling the scene by picking her and her friends up.
You need to set a line in the sand, you either condemn her behaviour and disassociate yourself from her and anyone else who enables this vile person.
Or you decide once and for all that you have some semblance of morality and sense of self and stand on your own two feet.
END OF.
Your first call should be to the irs. Don't let your dad know that you are turning him in.
Turn him in. This is not something that you just handle on your own, so he stays out of trouble.
This is not your fault, and it will not be your fault that he gets in trouble. This is all his doing. Let him handle the consequences of HIS actions.
If anyone in your family wants to complain about you turning him in, let them pay the outstanding taxes.
Probably not yet. But will soon
It changed mine! I don’t know how I lived without my raised loo seats and second stair rail before ?
Massive red flag. He is throwing a temper tantrum over you being responsible and him not getting his way. And he wants you to do something that will hurt you academically so he can have some fun. You should think very seriously if you want him to be your bf. Not husband material.
I’m sorry that you’re so stressed out instead of being able to enjoy the excitement of pregnancy.
It sounds like your family just sucks, and I think you have to accept that and control the things that you actually can control.
It does not sound like you’re going to have the bonding experience with your mom that you hoped for, and instead, you were attempts at bonding will just be used to hurt you. That is so unfair and I’m very sorry, but I think you should take that knowledge and use it to protect yourself.
You know that your sister is going to take over conversations, so don’t have conversations that matter to you when she’s around. Don’t spend time with your parents when she’s there. You know your family is going to disappoint you, so don’t ask them for things and keep your expectations really low. You know that they will weaponize information and use it against you so put them all on an information diet. They don’t need to know anything about your pregnancy or how you’re prepping for the baby going forward.
Lean on your friends and your partner’s family for support and to celebrate your pregnancy. You’re going to be a mom soon, which means that you are making your own family, and while it sucks that your family of origin is a big disappointment, look at this as a beautiful opportunity to create something new instead of letting them drag you down.
For real, was gonna leave exactly the same comment. Childhood friend in love with well-established adult woman who treated him with kindness when he was down on his luck growing up? Ignores her established relationship to shower her with lavish gifts and demand more and more of her time? Rents a prop mansion to impress her, and makes his money from some kind of vague startup with a web of mysterious connections? Takes her to a gala?? Disappears after ultimate rejections?? Fails to achieve the American dream??? IS NAMED JAY!?
I'm fairly certain OP has simply been doing some live Great Gatsby roleplay with these posts for entertainment, but I'm not mad. It was fun putting the pieces together.
And exchanging three phrases with the guest would have saved him a headache later on that day. C’mon, it’s just respectful to say hi and then leave.
There are never guarantees that anything works out. But if you already know you’re not willing to spend your life with her, TELL HER THAT!!!
I think you're absolutely right, I tried to tell him this multiple times, that maybe he is “projecting” his feeling of stress at the house, because sometimes he is very anxious about very little things and it usually comes to hand when he has a hot day at work, but he's not accepting this, and he refuse going to therapy. That's the reason I'm don't know how to handle the situation any more but just read your comment made me feel really understood. Thank you very much.
Thanks for replying. I guess we will see this week how things go!
Also, i don’t text her all the time, maybe one every few days just to see how she’s doing. I don’t want to bombard her. Is that enough to keep her interested until I get to know her more?