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Cheesburger Jesus here with a few of my colombian friends, 20 y.o.
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Date: October 4, 2022
I kind of think that there is no happy solution and I see cons in most of the options, for example, if I go by myself I don't think he will be too happy (me neither, tbh, I want him with me)
It might be time for you and your bf to discuss your finances as a whole….and you should reconsider if how much “fun money” you actually want to put aside. Do you even want to go to all those fancy trips and activities with your friends? Or do you prefer one fancy thing every now and then, and for the rest of the year things which are more in your and your partner's budget?
At the same time…what's your bf's plan for the future? Is he planning on staying in retail? Does he plan on going to school?
Okay, your first point is annoying enough, as grown folks should be able to go out and enjoy friends’ company without a curfew, but the bulge check crossed into completely out there territory for me. Your girlfriend has some extreme jealousy issues, and it seems to be taking a toll on you and your relationship.
Having jealous feelings is totally a thing, but that has to be communicated about and processed in healthy ways. By her enacting controlling and invasive behaviors on you to deal with her jealousy, she is making her insecurities your problem, and doesn’t seem to be putting in any work to help herself come up with healthy coping mechanisms. If she is having so many issues trusting you, that doesn’t present very promising prospects for your future. You will continue to feel increasingly isolated and controlled, and it doesn’t feel great when your partner doesn’t seem to trust you either.
It’s already wearing you down to the point of you having doubts about your future. If you want to work through this, she definitely needs to meet you halfway. I would suggest counseling, individual and together as a couple. It’s okay to want reassurance from people who are important to you, but she also needs to learn how to reassure herself and to foster some self-worth. When she believes she is worthy of love and is secure in who she is, she will rely less on you to provide that security, and will hopefully be able to trust that you also perceive her worth.
If she’s unwilling to do some growth in this area, it might be time to cut this off. (How long have you been together anyway?)
Even if she is pretending, distance yourself. It’s not a healthy thing to threaten, serious or not. If you’re genuinely concerned, report it.
I had a girlfriend threaten it after a breakup then tried and failed (painkillers). My family doctor gave me advice that those who do actually try (not a plea for help or attention) eventually succeed. Her advice was to distance myself asap.
She was right. The girl eventually lulled herself years later. Had continually tried for years when she had another partner. He then left her and she killed herself slowly with Tylenol.
My number was on a piece of paper she had left out. Her roommate called me. I wailed like a baby. She was a beautiful person but had too many psychological issues for a healthy relationship. I still love her to this day, but I’m glad I wasn’t in a relationship with her anymore because she wasn’t emotionally capable or healthy enough for one.
Why? Do you not think you are worthy of being liked for all that you are? Do you not like others regardless of their imperfections and traumas? Why don't you get to receive the same compassion others with “baggage” do?
Your friend is an ass – also does your friend want your brother lol what’s going on there.
That being said “couples who look alike” is a thing – people are often drawn towards “the familiar”, it has nothing to do with “omg they all look like your brother”
So your friend is an idiot, they’re giving you shit for no reason, please keep finding whoever you want naked