She wants a divorce and you are not listening. Why do you keep pleading with her? It sounds like you care more for the 60,000 than what she wants. Also, this relationship cannot be fixed, she has a lot of red flags, your family has a lot of red flags, so paying 60,000 to get out of this relationship is a good deal for you.
My biggest hurt in all this is that she is showing her priority is getting back her money from the house we bought 6 months ago, not saving our relationship.
So? This is not wrong!!! She wants the money so that she can move on.
The possible BDP is irrelevant. You ignored red flags for 6 years (many mentioned in comments of previous post). Now she wants to split and you drag your feet because you want what you want? You cannot force people to do what you want. Maybe you are a narcissist like your mother.
I wouldn’t even be near this person to be honest
She wants a divorce and you are not listening. Why do you keep pleading with her? It sounds like you care more for the 60,000 than what she wants. Also, this relationship cannot be fixed, she has a lot of red flags, your family has a lot of red flags, so paying 60,000 to get out of this relationship is a good deal for you.
My biggest hurt in all this is that she is showing her priority is getting back her money from the house we bought 6 months ago, not saving our relationship.
So? This is not wrong!!! She wants the money so that she can move on.
The possible BDP is irrelevant. You ignored red flags for 6 years (many mentioned in comments of previous post). Now she wants to split and you drag your feet because you want what you want? You cannot force people to do what you want. Maybe you are a narcissist like your mother.
Might be time to leave she doesn't sound very happy either