Good luck with everything. Sounds like way more drama than it’s worth. What if you get this other person pregnant? You’re opening a lot of doors, enjoy the ride.
If you had posted you were 19 and 21, I might have excused her TO A LIMITED degree, and would have chalked this up to immaturity OP, and a simple issue of growing up a bit. But honestly OP she is 31she is or should be mature enough and have enough experience to know this is not typical, she has an incredibly one sided standard, and that just does not work healthy relationship. OP honestly that she seems to like constantly digging on and insulting you and your friends, and has stated you are lucky to have her. Is a common tactic of abusers, It's a deliberate attempt to make you feel insecure, to make you believe you will never get anyone better, in order to manipulate you into taking the abuse.
If you are done be done with it,, if you want to try therapy and work on it, you can but this often does not change a person who is intent to keep control, many abusers even those that are more subtle about it will tell therapists exactly what they want to here. acts better for a while and then slip back into the same pattern. Abuse is not just physical and verbal abuse can often leave deeper scars. Is this the kind of future you want?
Good luck with everything. Sounds like way more drama than it’s worth. What if you get this other person pregnant? You’re opening a lot of doors, enjoy the ride.
If you had posted you were 19 and 21, I might have excused her TO A LIMITED degree, and would have chalked this up to immaturity OP, and a simple issue of growing up a bit. But honestly OP she is 31she is or should be mature enough and have enough experience to know this is not typical, she has an incredibly one sided standard, and that just does not work healthy relationship. OP honestly that she seems to like constantly digging on and insulting you and your friends, and has stated you are lucky to have her. Is a common tactic of abusers, It's a deliberate attempt to make you feel insecure, to make you believe you will never get anyone better, in order to manipulate you into taking the abuse.
If you are done be done with it,, if you want to try therapy and work on it, you can but this often does not change a person who is intent to keep control, many abusers even those that are more subtle about it will tell therapists exactly what they want to here. acts better for a while and then slip back into the same pattern. Abuse is not just physical and verbal abuse can often leave deeper scars. Is this the kind of future you want?