You sound amazing. If he wants a submissive girl who talks in whispers and only has a thimblefull of personality so that he can feel like a boss, then he can go find that girl instead of negging you into oblivion.
Your boyfriend sounds at little pathetic, tbh. You should tell him all about the fantasy guy you want, who can match your energy without feeling threatened.
Nobody has said this, just from reading this. To me it sounds like he hooked up with someone else who likes the way he plays with them, and he wants to do that to you and that isn’t your thing. You two sound incompatible in the bedroom. While you may be sad and upset. This sounds like it’s gonna be a deal breaker. Maybe this is bad advice, but I don’t think you should continue to peruse this guy. He is just going to continue to be cold, and you’re gonna wonder what you did wrong. You did nothing wrong. You’re just not right for each other sexually.
I don’t get it. You dressed up fancy and he showed you extra attention. Isn’t that the goal of dressing up?
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You sound amazing. If he wants a submissive girl who talks in whispers and only has a thimblefull of personality so that he can feel like a boss, then he can go find that girl instead of negging you into oblivion.
Your boyfriend sounds at little pathetic, tbh. You should tell him all about the fantasy guy you want, who can match your energy without feeling threatened.
Nobody has said this, just from reading this. To me it sounds like he hooked up with someone else who likes the way he plays with them, and he wants to do that to you and that isn’t your thing. You two sound incompatible in the bedroom. While you may be sad and upset. This sounds like it’s gonna be a deal breaker. Maybe this is bad advice, but I don’t think you should continue to peruse this guy. He is just going to continue to be cold, and you’re gonna wonder what you did wrong. You did nothing wrong. You’re just not right for each other sexually.