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The next time he touches you, tell him to stop.
Or be preemptive about it, and tell him to stop touching you right when you see him next. He's a creep, but if he has any morals whatsoever he'll comply.
Thanks for the link, I'm going to check it out. Reading a lot of the worst comments for sure hurts, as I never thought I was that bad. I need to reflect on a lot of things from this Reddit experience.
For sure I'll be proposing couple's therapy. I hope solo therapy as well, and treatment for any underlying issues (on both sides).
That's awesome to hear! I think the therapy will help you to kinda sort through all these thoughts and emotions. One recommendation with therapy, go in with goals for yourself. And don't be afraid to look for a different therapist if the first one doesn't mesh right… It can take a bit of work sometimes to find a good one.
Honestly, he sounds like a good dude. Does he know exactly what you are dissatisfied with? Is there something you could have communicated or done sooner to have avoided feeling this way now?
I think the best route forward is to dig deep, examine your feelings, and communicate with him your appreciation for his support, talk up his good qualities for you, but that you are unsure this will work out and that therapy is going to help you process what you are going through and you can't guarantee that y'all will be together afterwards.
It's a difficult talk, but a respectful one. It lets him know where you are at, why you want to fight for the relationship, but allows him the opportunity to walk if this is not the parth he wants to take with you.
Your focus is going to have to be on yourself for awhile, and that can be very hot for a partner to go through.
He drinks heavily, acts inappropriately when drinking (e.g., pees on a building), he's broke, he has a suspended license, and he's not acting planfully about his future. He stays out late drinking several times a week.
I'm not sure why you can't see this, but I'm pretty confident in my assessment.
I would say to her “you're a good friend to me and I appreciate you. But when you talk about flirty/sexual stuff it makes me uncomfortable. I don't want to speak in that way with you anymore.” Then give her a chance to adjust her behaviour. If she starts doing it again, you say “like I told you before, I don't want to talk about that stuff. If you keep doing it I'm going to have to leave the chat.” And if she does continue, do leave. If that happens a few times, you will have to distance yourself from her.
The next time he touches you, tell him to stop.
Or be preemptive about it, and tell him to stop touching you right when you see him next. He's a creep, but if he has any morals whatsoever he'll comply.
Thanks for the link, I'm going to check it out. Reading a lot of the worst comments for sure hurts, as I never thought I was that bad. I need to reflect on a lot of things from this Reddit experience.
For sure I'll be proposing couple's therapy. I hope solo therapy as well, and treatment for any underlying issues (on both sides).
That's awesome to hear! I think the therapy will help you to kinda sort through all these thoughts and emotions. One recommendation with therapy, go in with goals for yourself. And don't be afraid to look for a different therapist if the first one doesn't mesh right… It can take a bit of work sometimes to find a good one.
Honestly, he sounds like a good dude. Does he know exactly what you are dissatisfied with? Is there something you could have communicated or done sooner to have avoided feeling this way now?
I think the best route forward is to dig deep, examine your feelings, and communicate with him your appreciation for his support, talk up his good qualities for you, but that you are unsure this will work out and that therapy is going to help you process what you are going through and you can't guarantee that y'all will be together afterwards.
It's a difficult talk, but a respectful one. It lets him know where you are at, why you want to fight for the relationship, but allows him the opportunity to walk if this is not the parth he wants to take with you.
Your focus is going to have to be on yourself for awhile, and that can be very hot for a partner to go through.
Hopefully this has helped a little!
He drinks heavily, acts inappropriately when drinking (e.g., pees on a building), he's broke, he has a suspended license, and he's not acting planfully about his future. He stays out late drinking several times a week.
I'm not sure why you can't see this, but I'm pretty confident in my assessment.
I would say to her “you're a good friend to me and I appreciate you. But when you talk about flirty/sexual stuff it makes me uncomfortable. I don't want to speak in that way with you anymore.” Then give her a chance to adjust her behaviour. If she starts doing it again, you say “like I told you before, I don't want to talk about that stuff. If you keep doing it I'm going to have to leave the chat.” And if she does continue, do leave. If that happens a few times, you will have to distance yourself from her.