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Date: October 30, 2022
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At the same time, her best friend left his job in Chicago and moved in with us, in FL.
This is a big deal. What happened with the best friend?
I know it's going to be very hot to go against the good will she might have earned when things are good, and the way she makes you feel that led to you wanting to marry her, but she showed you a glimpse of who she really is. This cheating, thrill-seeking and boundary busting woman, who only came forward when the other guy threatened her “perfect situation”, is who you would be staying in a relationship with and would be marrying. Ask yourself honestly, do you want that for yourself?
It's about 20%
It's always been around this number though
With that logic you also cheated with the piercer? Or did they pierce you with their eyes closed
Why doesn't your family know about your gf? That seems like a bigger problem than whether or not you go on a trip to meet her family.
Like, you should DEFINITELY NOT do it raw with… goddamn strippers of all people! There's the STD issue, the potential financial issue with children (like here), and much more. It's one thing if you were officially in a relationship with them…you do you and all that, but for the fun?? I'm sorry you're a moron.
Give him a break.
Most likely this is something that sounded like a funny thing to do inside his head but obviously didn't turn out that well.
What was supposed to be funny and probably a bit edgy turned out to be creepy and strange.
He didn't tell you before because he knew that you would probably talk him down, but he thought that he knew better and that it still would be fun and turn out well.
You presented your situation as her anger behavior is not an isolated incident but a repeated one.
If she knows what she did was/is unhealthy then the next step to address it so she won't repeat this physical violence and keep from unhealthy expressions of anger.
Money it's more expensive to do it that way
So your two options are that he's doing gay hookups, or he's buying illegal drugs. Is either one of those acceptable in your marriage?
The damage is done, all you can do is minimize it by being honest and telling him that it was a drunken mistake
Lmfao just fuck off wtf who do you think you are ??
If financial pride is the only thing you have to your name you need so sort yourself out. Nothing wrong with a partner paying for stuff if they want to. This “traditional” future you speak of is at best bullshit and at worst financial abuse. She is in higher education so obviously has no interest in your stay at home, dinner on the table housewife fantasy.
Your partner paying for your meals or anything for that matter doesn’t make you less of a man. If you want to do life alone then be single. If you wanna do life with someone then accept that they bring something to your life as well, rather than this toxic masculine bullshit of assuming you’re her knight in shining armour.
OP also has a son…. But I guess that’s not as important as his pride?
This relationship is going to end badly if he doesn’t fix his attitude. She’s on track to have a career where she makes more than him, yet he thinks he’s going to be the sole provider and she’s going to be a SAHM?
Why the hell are they wasting money sending her to school if the plan is for her to stay home? It would be fine if they have the funds, but clearly that’s not the case!
Based off the boyfriends edit I'm ngl the girlfriend sounds immature as fuck WHO HIDES BLOODY USED TOWELS TO SIT FOR A WEEK??? Jesus Christ
Wtf is a “compromise ring”?
we actually broke up in the past and then got back together because he called me apologizing for his behavior and telling me he would go to therapy.
it’s been weeks and he hasn’t gone. whenever i’ve mentioned it he’s gotten very defensive and said that he just never scheduled it because he’s bad at scheduling things and keeps procrastinating it.
i honestly think he just doesn’t want to go, but he keeps telling me he will and that he wants to without ever scheduling an appointment.
Don't have kids with him.
Already done
Yes.
I wouldn't replan shit for her
You do t need his permission. Do not miss your mothers wedding. His abandonment issues are something he needs to figure out. If he can’t handle you being gone for 2 days then he really needs help. Why doesn’t he want to go if he was invited? Also even if he does go he still needs to get help. You can’t live your life like this.
No way of knowing how long they were together before getting pregnant. Happened to me 3 weeks into seeing someone, lmao.
But we were mid 30s and able to handle it. Happy to say it turns out he's my person. Our daughter is 5 1/2 and life together is good. That's all beside the point though, which is we know jack shit about their timeliness beyond the fact that they've been together at least 40 weeks, lol.
I'm sorry to make it sound like this but it's not true. We have some amazing memories together it's just that we both handle pressure from exams and life in a baaad way. He wants his space when he's stressed and I keep seeking reassurance because I think he's getting distant.. I don't wanna make excuses but I was being a pain in the ass to him all the time by asking everyday whether he was gonna leave or not, stressing him over especially in a period of his life where there was something else bothering him and pressuring him. I was not a safe place for him during that time. I mean, I can tell he loves me, I feel it when I look at him in the eyes but it's the first time after we got together that he leaves to go see his family and when you're in your hometown I think you truly understand whether you love someone or not.
If this is in the context of working through issues in the relationship, then I’d say she’s plainly wrong — it’s not okay to tell one partner they’re not allowed to be an active participant in conversations about the relationship, that one person gets to simply declare that their own feelings are THE final word on the situation. That’s not a relationship, that’s a dictatorship.
I think the important question here is why she feels that you having different views somehow invalidates her views. It would help if you could give us an example. It’s very hot to know if she’s responding to something legitimate in your communication style, or just trying to silence you.
I don’t know it just makes me a little uncomfortable that even though we weren’t exclusive I figured oh it might upset her if I sleep with someone else but she didn’t think the same and slept with literally three people
Your husband is a POS who wanted to fuck your friend. Thats all.
You. Are. Awesome.
You’re a pedophile you realise that right
No. He needs to grow up and learn how to deal with his emotions. If you don't leave I would insist that he gets therapy to learn coping mechanisms to having his widdle ego hurt. If he refuses then you can decide what to do
I see why your GF is upset. I can’t I again anyone wanting to be with a man who won’t stand up for himself. You’re not being a good dad or a good ex husband – you’re being a non-confrontational coward and teaching people (including your children) to treat you like shit. Stand up for yourself. Have some boundaries and self-respect.
As a woman who’s been cheated on…I would also want to know, BUT I wouldn’t be mad at her for not telling me since the man being a cop jeopardizes her safety.
This is too harsh on op.
If she is allowed to feel rejected by an ex marrying, after not marrying her, op is allowed to feel rejected by Gf crying over another man being no longer available (whether she wants him or not, she's certainly pissed he didn't commit to her)
You are both too young for this nonsense. Neither one of you are fully “you” at this point. If he is this hard-core about what goes on your body, I cannot imagine his drastic views on other things down the line. I am telling you this as a woman who had people tell me similar things when I was younger, and I didn't listen. He might mellow out as he ages, many people do. But it's a shot in the dark. Good luck to you. Dress how you want. If you need external help finding styles that flatter you and make you feel pretty and comfy, get that help. Everyone wants validation. It's for YOU to decide how that manifests.
If I want to give away my money I will donate it to a charity not to someone who didn’t work for it.
It's very clear that you don't respect childrearing as a job.
I make 80% of the money in the home and she can stop working but she doesn’t want to and I can’t stop because she doesn’t make anywhere near enough for the household.
Who are you talking about? I thought you just said you weren't married.
Nope I’d seek divorce and full custody, have the other guy send you texts as proof for custody. She only admitted it because he said something. This is over and you’ll never fully trust her again
Updateme!
Fair. But she’s expressed that she doesn’t want a committed relationship, she just likes the attention and companionship of dating
Could be boundary for her. Could be where she vents. If you like her and you like spending time with her, then let it go for now and just enjoy being with her. Consider that her private life and I will suspect she’ll support you having boundaries and privacy of your own.
If she doesn’t like you having similar boundaries, and makes it a double standard, then it’s a problem.
It's alright. You'll meet someone more your speed young one.
I agree it's not sexless but it's definitely on the lower end of things. Most people wouldn't be satisfied with once a week.
I'm a firm believer that people in relationships can be platonic friends with the opposite sex so I'm not the type that supports people who complain about opposite sex friends with no reason. But she clearly views this dude as a freebie or something. She's a cheater and a liar so she's not really worthy of trust and I'm not sure why you are with her.
Sounds like that’s not the real issue but she’s using it to cover whatever her real issue is. 99% of people would be happy for you.
If you want to save him embarrassment, then I'd play dumb.
“Is there something weird about your building babe? Like, is there an underground train or something? I keep waking up to the whole room shaking! I feel like I'm crazy, cause when I sit up and look for it, it stops.”
You're welcome. Sorry people are piling on to tell you how you can fix the problem instead of expecting your husband to give a fuck about you and how you feel. Super disappointing.
The friend don't sound great imo. She was clearly going down a bad path that they recognized and they slept with her and collected nudes anyway.
The only thing they did right was not hide their past with her. They assumed he knew.
I responded to “cuss him out”.
This guy sounds awful, think of it as lucking out
I think you're at an impasse here, OP.
I do personally think it's odd that your 29 year old girlfriend is still totally dependent on her parents and wants to spend all of her free time with them, but if that's what is important to her, I'm not sure what there is you can do.
You've tried to voice your concerns, and she's shut them down. Unless she's interested in going to couple's therapy ( which I can't imagine she would considering she balks at the idea of not revolving her life around her family ), I don't see her changing.
So you've gotta decide, what's more important? Your independence and making new memories, as you've said, or compromising what you want to be with your GF? Because, my guess is her plan is to eventually coerce you into moving out of the city to live in a house 5 minutes from her parents' house and spend all your time with her family. If you can hang with that, you've got your answer. If you feel like you're missing out, you've got your answer.
It seems like you two just want very different things. Personally, I would absolutely not date someone with that kind of enmeshed family dynamic. You're not wrong to not want to spend all your free time with your partner's family, but if that's what she wants, y'all are probably just no longer compatible.