See a lawyer NOW WHATEVER your plans, don't give him a head start because even if you don't want a divorce ( I think divorce is the way to go but) he might.
Either he has genuinly accidently fallen in love with another women and plans to leave you or he is just an asshole who just likes to cheat. If its the latter he will have no qualms about begging you to fix the marriage at the same time as hiding money & bagging evidence against you. Be VERY carefull.
I stopped reading after the first paragraph. Why are you with this person?
I guess what I'm asking is did you present it the way I did? Maybe try that.
Don't be accusatory, just kinda spell it out and ask him how he would react if the situation was reversed.
Get a STD test.
See a lawyer NOW WHATEVER your plans, don't give him a head start because even if you don't want a divorce ( I think divorce is the way to go but) he might.
Either he has genuinly accidently fallen in love with another women and plans to leave you or he is just an asshole who just likes to cheat. If its the latter he will have no qualms about begging you to fix the marriage at the same time as hiding money & bagging evidence against you. Be VERY carefull.
You found this info out months ago, has he sought out help?