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Let me put it a harsher way: He broke up with you, someone he's been with for 6 years, who he presumably loved, who, given the nature of the break up, should have been a bit torn up about leaving.
Within the span of 2 months as in, less than 2 months (could be anywhere from a day to 8 weeks), he fucks some other girl?
Let me tell you what that has to mean: within 2 months
he got over you, established some kind of relationship with another girl, became fwb, fucked her a few times (or way more than a few), All the while talking to you, being friendly, playing the “I miss you” game. Then, when he got it out of his system, came back to you.
Does this sound like someone who was so so sad that he needed to break up with you? Someone who “just needs to get better… but misses his ex of 6 years?”
Sounds to me… like he was over you, a girl he spent 6 years with… quite quickly. Sounds to me… like what he really wanted was a break, so he can fuck someone else, then “settle down” one he got it out of his system.
Let me ask you this? Were you thinking of fucking some other guy during the break up? Where you looking for anyone during that time? Were you looking to date? I'm sure you could have right?
Or….. were you processing breaking up with the love of your life? The guy you were with for 6 years not even a month ago? Where you getting over him, and clearing your head before you move on?
Imagine the headspace you'd have to be in to do what he did. THAT'S the headspace he was in. That's the truth.
THEN he LIES to you, because he knew he had no case otherwise. Because he knew that you would rightfully be questioning just how truthful his reason for breaking up was. Of course he lied; he couldn't grant you the right to make an informed decision, if he was going to be on the outside.
Sorry, it just boils my beans when people are manipulated like you were. In the end it's your call… but it sounds to me like he just looped-holed his way to cheat guilt free. It's your choice, and maybe the great 2 years you've had since then make up for it, but at least go into it with both eyes open.
Just an innocent bystander
I agree with the others that you can’t rely on your friend to be your whole social circle, and that you need to make other friends… however moving with friends does set some expectations, and if she’s becoming obsessive with her BF, that warrants its own conversation, you need a healthy balance in relationships. I think it’s fair to have a conversation where you ask to spend a little more time just having it be the two of you as friends. There can’t be any expectations, she doesn’t owe you her time, you shouldn’t be jealous of her BF, but I think it’s fair to have that conversation.
Dump her. Get a DNA test for the kid and dump her.
Typical Indian People, they’re afraid of the people judgement what they will say about them and family reputation will get spoiled. I am planning to meet them but I don’t know how to convince them.
what he did was obviously gross and weird, but the first thing to go when relationships are dead is your public opinion of your partner. when you start shit talking them or don’t care uphold their pride in your circle. it also has other forms like embarrassing your partner for the sake of a joke. so whether or not you care about what he did, there’s no real merit to the relationship anymore because your ashamed of him
This is exactly the kind of thing I expect a 32yo dating a 22yo to say.
Girl throw the whole man away. You’re way too young for this kind of BS.
I‘m sorry but just here for the comments ?
Congratulations looks like your getting a divorce for Christmas good job
stop giving him the keys? jesus christ
She took long enough already, so I'm going to move on. Thanks for the advice!
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He's stupid. Man this hurts to read.
How can a 32M think that Hard to orgasm = No orgasms ever?
Any insights to why he feels this way or advice?
Tell him to grow up and get over it. I don't know why his tantrum is entertained here. Why does he need to be consoled?
This sounds like emotional manipulation.
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You gotta stop thinking that every accusation is truth. Innocent until proven guilty is still a thing. The fact that you think Tom Hanks is a pedo tells me that you need therapy to deal with your issues. Baseless accusations of pedophilia is quite harmful to people and you gotta cut that out.
I know my worth and I know she will regret doing this (Sorry i didnt know)
“Goodbye and don’t let the door hit you on the way out”
It doesn’t matter that you’re all he has. It matters that you want out. Do both of you a favor and rip the bandaid off quickly.
If you drag it out it will just make the betrayal and torture worse for him. And you’ll be pissed at him because he’ll be holding you back.
You need to not be in a relationship and work on self respect. You should never beg to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. SHE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU, if she actually cared one y’all would never gone on a break. Work on yourself man and don’t beg that’s pathetic. I understand we all want love but love is 50/50 not a one way street.
You should break up.
He says he didn’t expect anything but got mad when he didn’t get anything? That makes no sense. He expected something and was mad he didn’t get anything. If he truly didn’t expect anything to be given to him he wouldn’t have been mad in the first place.
Yes and she hasn’t stated how much weight he’s gained so it feels like it’s not even very much idk. I would get it if it were genuinely a major amount (like over 35lbs) but if it’s 15 or 20 and she’s no longer able to feel attracted to him it seems more like an issue with op.
She may be better as a good friend anyhow! Just be as gentle as possible.
Just because something is normalize doesn’t mean it’s healthy and appropriate for every relationship. Many men develop unhealthy relationships with porn. It’s perfectly reasonable to not want your partner to look at thousands of women hard in a monogamous relationship. It just boggles my mind how you guys want to pressure people into believing that it’s OK. You’re allowed to think it’s inappropriate. You’re allowed to find partners who share that perspective. Especially since mainstream porn has become incredibly violent and degrading towards women.
The difference there is that the characters in a book are imaginary. Porn generally features real people.
Look they’re not going to love you more if you miss grad and show up for the wedding. They’ll take that for granted and never appreciate your sacrifice.
They may treat you worse if you walk at grad but then again, what really will change? What will change is that you would set the trajectory differently and you will start to value yourself.
Grad dates can’t be changed. Wedding dates can. If they truly valued family, they would have changed it. But no, the expectations are all on you.
Be kind to yourself. Road will be hard because those who are used to exploiting people hate being told no. But it’s better for you in the long run.
Good luck and also, CONGRATULATIONS!! Omg! You’re a doctor!!!
I immediately thought, private life and possible hidden second family. OP protect yourself and be careful. How well do you know him? There are red flags all over this, you’ve not met family and he’s lying at work, does he have any friends you’ve met? Anyone?
I didn’t plan on anything, it happened organically.
Didn't you literally give him your number when he came to pick up your sister? Sounds pretty damn planned.
call her a fucking moron and leave
I'm still having trouble following the timeline here, could you help me out?
This sounds like a live! in maid arrangement from your end. There's no equality in either the finances or housework
Wow really? That's her response? She has absolutely no sympathy for you. In situations like this you support your partner, not dismiss their feelings. Your gf is a bitch and you should dump her.
IIRC, the sister did cheat with him. Far as I'm concerned they deserve each other.
Is it one of those families who has a history of cheating but like 100% of the time the couple will reconcile? Like how it can be forgivable for others?
Break up.
Absolutely. He’s jealous because he knows HE behaves inappropriately.
No repercussions of pissing off your neighbors No need to clean the sheets if stuff gets…dirty Less responsibilities around (maybe kids at home, pets etc) so less things on your mind
Love the good ol’ blaming women here. Men should just be decent humans because that’s the right thing to do. Why is it up to women to change men? Jesus Christ
If were going to psychoanalyst people based on their actions, you post in red pill and conspiracy, so lets not do that, because you can't possibly come out looking good.
Nah if I was him I would have gone over to her place straight away , that's what a * caring * boyfriend would do
Hard nope. My bf would NEVER, and I can’t think of a single male friend that would participate in something like that. Hope you break up but seems like you don’t quite get it, in your comments. Hopefully he didn’t leak your nudes to his friends, but I’d assume he did.
There is so much going on in your relationship, and you're only one person. I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm imploring you to talk to an adult that cares about you. See if they'll take you in if you need some time to yourself. You don't need to think that he's the wrong person, but I know you're smart enough to realize that he's wrong for you. I'm your age and it hurts me to read about what your the way lies and manipulates you. Slowly wearing you down into thinking his behavior is permissible. Don't make any significant life changes you're not comfortable with. Still, I would suggest that you take a minute for yourself and stop being sexually active with him and talk to a professional therapist. If you can't find a way to delete the photos permanently from his phone look up revenge p*** laws in your state in case he uses them when he's angry. Sending you strength, healing, and a lot of happiness.
Contact her parents and her pastor. This behavior is irrational and sounds like a chemical imbalance. She needs to be evaluated, immediately.
Friends don’t try to beat you down, they try to raise you up.
I'm sorry for any non replies to comments, half the comments I've received I can't view for some reason. So apologies I'm not dismissing advice or anything. I've just been back and forth all day.
Also, acting like men are somehow morally bankrupt and causing irreparable harm to women by masturbating in private. There are so many threads you can see women talking about fantasizing while masturbating or even while having sex with their partner. Somehow, they aren't “creeps,” though. Fucking silly.
It's bothersome that he doubled down on it when you expressed your fear. I fortunately do not have a history of abuse and I would be scared if someone came at me like that with no warning. Even if he didn't have bad intent, he should have been apologetic for making you fearful and said he'd be more aware of his actions in the future. I don't know that it warrants divorce, but if you have further discussion about it and he doesn't back down, that is symptomatic of a bigger problem.
His mistake was thinking I was going to support him through this
So here's the thing, when you go looking for problems in your relationship, you're going to find it. Only your way of finding it was to invade your wife's personal journal and get upset about her private thoughts that aren't your business.
You're seriously upset by things she did when y'all were teenagers? Been married 20 years with kids and you're trippin about her considering dating someone before you?
Do you poke beehives and get mad when the bees sting you?
I would bet everything I own that if you leave now, you’ll be glad you did. You might feel regret at some point because change is hard, but when you see how good it is to live! without being torn down like that it’ll change your life.